So here's the thing, I have a really messy room but when it comes to my school desk or any bag or table I like to have it in a nice neat order I mean not a single pen out of place also the fact that I can't make eye contact I can only do it with my mum and two of my friends it makes me feel uncomfortable I also don't really look at people when they are speaking not to be rude because I am listening it just makes me feel nervous is this normal?
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I wouldn't worry about the clean thing. I was the same way. Its like personal space. Everything of mine had to be so so other then my room u couldn't walk into it. But the social thing will turn into a problem as u get older. I would diff go talk to someone about that. As u get older it will be harder in college and may even make u quit and getting jobs and such people want u to look at them and communicate wit them. I wwould diff go see someone about that.
In some families/cultures people are raised to avoid eye contact. It actually is better in order to prevent people from seducing you and therefore controlling you. It just takes one predator.