I'm a freshman in high school and it has been a huge hard change to move from middle school to high the three bigger changes are the school is a completely different school, the teachers are all different and the biggest thing is the school work is a lot harder. In algebra of you don't pass the test with a 40/50 then you have correct the wrong answers on your test then get signed off to retake the test and if you don't get sighed off or don't pass the test by a cretin date then you have to drop out of algebra and then have to take it next year. Well my school starts at 6:25 and I didn't pass my test I got a 20/50 so for three weeks straight I have been waking up at 4:45 to get to school at 5:20 to get my test corrected also the past two weekends I have to volunteer for FFA at Beeselys (local apple orchard) I have to bee there at 6 am (plus i have imsamia a sleep disopder) also all the hard school work have cause me to be every stressed. I looked at a picture if me that was taken this summer and I look 5 years older i have bags under my eyes and I just looked so aged. Well yesterday I was doing math homework and I didn't remember how to to do it and I started cry and having spasmodic seizor-like jolts I couldn't stop all I and remeber are these bursts of light flashing in my eyes and my mom shaking me. Also I have lost interest in eveything my girlfriend my friends my hobbies all I do is stay in side in my room do my homework and just lay down on my bed. I am 14 year old boy and I'm dyslexic (just incase that helps)
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Wow - you have very serious problems. School starts at 6:25 a.m.? I never
heard of such abuse of teenagers. No wonder you feel like you're falling apart. I
would too with that horrible schedule.
Just being dyslexic is hard enough without all the other pressure you have. Do you
HAVE to pass algebra? If there's no other alternative, hire a tutor to learn at a slower
pace that you can understand.
Do teachers and school counselors know you have this ghastly schedule as well as
dyslexia? If I were your mom, I'd have a talk with all the school authorities. School
should begin at 8am like all schools, allowing you to have plenty of sleep.
Do you HAVE to volunteer in the orchard? I'd drop that, if I were you. You need the
weekend to catch up on sleep.
Having spasms and jolts is very serious; sounds like a stroke or a heart attack
ready to happen.
Get to a dr. immediately, tell him all this and ask to be tested. It sounds like your
schedule is killing you. Sometimes teachers will stay after school a little while to
help a struggling student. I'm a counselor and I really hate to see this happen to you.
Remember that the teen years are the absolutely worst time of your life. I'm surprised any of us survive it. You are suffering so many issues (no wonder) and from the effects of accumulated stress. Your body and mind are trying to cope but ... it's hard.
A therapist can prescribe mood elevators and muscle relaxers but that doesn't get to the real problem.
God is the ONLY one who knows what you’ve been taught, what you’ve suffered, what you’re thinking and what you’re going thru.
Jesus He loves you passionately and wants to be your BFF. He has a super-deluxe custom-made plan for your life that’s beyond anything you ever dreamed of. But He waits for us to ask. Invite Him into your heart, ask Him to take over your life. You will instantly feel better. You are His special masterpiece. He planned for you before He even created the universe.
Watch Him ease the stress and give you peace in it's place. He is on YOUR side. He never stops thinking about you. His thoughts toward you are more than the grains of sand on the beach (Psalm 139. He loves you more than you can possibly imagine!
Find a big happy church and join their youth group. Read your Bible, find Christian support groups. Watch Christian programs like Joel Osteen, 700 Club, Daystar, TBN TV. Read Christian books, watch Christian DVDs.
All the above and churches also have wonderful counselors that can help you.
There's so much fascinating information to learn. Jesus loves you more than you can possibly imagine. You’ll have fun and the rest of your life will be the very best of your life.
I hope this helps; it sure made a huge difference for me :)
They who seek The Lord shall not lack any good thing. Ps. 34:10
Delight yourself in the LORD and He will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD, Trust also in Him, And He shall bring it to pass. Ps 37:4-6
Pour out your heart to Him (Ps 62:8) Nothing you say will shock or surprise God.
"No eye has seen, no ear has heard, and no mind has imagined the things that God has prepared for those who love Him." 1 cor 2:9 WOW!!
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