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As much as you might think otherwise, there really is only one true you. You might have done a really good job of hiding it though. Spend some time thinking about what is really important (things like family, friends, values, parts of your life) to you. How do people see you, and how do you want people to see you? If you died and an article was done about a great achievement you had done, what would that achievement be? What would your friends or family say about you in an interview? Where do you see yourself 10 years from today. As for the topic of love, you might not know what love is yet. That's okay. It's normal. In reality, you are far less likely to be taken advantage of because you're in love. You are much, much, much more likely to be taken advantage of because you think you're in love and let yourself go for a person. You don't 'fall in love', you choose to love. That's a big lesson you will learn one day. But once you figure out who you are, cling to it! Don't let anyone influence you to walk away from your path. Be yourself! You are an amazing person, and when you stick to your life, you'll find yourself with the right people at the right time. Good luck, and if you need someone to talk to about this, let me know. I've had a similar problem before, and I'm sure I could find some advice for any specific problem you have with this. Good luck! :)

Love is in everything.

So yes... your understanding of love is misguided.

There is no right or wrong when it comes to love.

Some people like to be treated a certain way, and others simply do not care.

Some people just need a lot of sex in a relationship.. while others need less sex.

It all depends on how you feel about it.

Take a piece of paper and write these words down:

Love:

Careing:

Friendship:

Human:

Then write how ever much you need to write to describe what each word means to you. This exersize is meant for you to see how you think. Then date the paper, and put it away.

Go back to it after a month or two and see if you change your answers.

Then write your new answers on the back of the paper and put it away again.

Repeat this process, you will then learn something about human nature.

We are all constantly exploring, and so, constantly changing, even in minute ways. If we don't, our lives get stagnant. That said, your identity is exactly who you want it to be and nothing less. Beliefs are subjective and constantly in flux... don't beat yourself up for questioning things, that's the only way we grow.

As for love, we must leave ourselves vulnerable in order to receive it. It kinda sucks, but those are the rules! So we have to be brave and know going into it that we might get hurt. But the rewards are so amazing if it works out, that it's worth that risk. After all, it's only heartache and it does go away.

Just last night I was crying my eyes out over a guy I cannot have, but I still understand that love is out there for me, even if it isn't with this one person. My heart hurts when I think of him, but I'm still proud of myself for having the courage to love fearlessly.

appears like a case of o.c.d. obsesive compulsive illness. Ocd might nicely be focused on in basic terms one element....at the same time together with his kit....consistent with possibility it in basic terms annoyed him before your sister exceeded....yet now could be merely worse be reason he hasn't dealt with his soreness. Did he spend a super style of time w/his kit and interior the storage after that got here about????

you need to find someone you are compatible with and not change yourself to please them if they cant accept you for who you are you are not meant to be together

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