no lecture please im freaking out. my boyfriend who my mother loves is 23 im 16, we've been together for two years. my dad hit me, my bf defended me, police saw he had warrants took him, my mom accidently called him my bf, so i think the cops are just trying to get me to admit to havign sex with him, cuz i know he wouldnt admit to it but the cops said he said we've had sex in the past, so my mom refuses testing, i say we didnt have sex, my bf says we didnt have sex, my mom says we didnt, i live in pa, what are theychances they'll press charges
Atualizada:they said they are reporting it to child services, im concerned if we go to court if they will press charges for rape if my mom said she doesnt know anything. i'm deniing sex and so is he. they have no proof. and he's only living at the house because a 23 year old is leasing our basement and it's his friend. which isn't a lie. what are the odds they will charge him for rape with no proof?
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They can't press charges without evidence, and if you don't cooperate with providing any evidence, and they don't have any witness testimony, it is hearsay and there is no case. Even his own admission is not enough.
If anything, if it would go to trial, a jury would be sympathetic to him defending you from your father's assault, and your tesimony together with your mother's testimony that he never had sex with you would be enough to get it thrown out. No prosecutor is going to waste their time with it.
Besides, even since Clinton showed how, there is no valid and definitive definition of "sex". He could always claim he thought "sex" meant kissing you on the neck, or your shoulders, or your belly. In Clinton's case, he even insisted a full-to-completion BJ was not sex.
No lecture.
Those warrants though.... hmmm... you really didn't explain that part well enough. Warrants for WHAT?
I'd like to praise him as a hero, but I'm really wondering what you are thinking getting involved with a guy who's got warrants out for his arrest. He doesn't sound very responsible.
Ofcourse they can, and most likely will, unless they change their minds some kinda way, but seeing the age! they will press charges, that illegal. Actually considered rape, even though i know he';s your bf and the situation is cool with your mom, but the legal system prohibits that relationship bcoz of you being so young. And they could also charge your mom too with allowing the relationship to go on knowing that you were 14 at the time and he was 21 years old which he's old enough to buy liquor and cigarettes, while you were probably in 8th or 9th grade.
I say pray. I hope they don't charge him or your mom though. Good luck. And if they do, don't let it tear you two apart. =]
depends on the totality of the evidence, and likelihood of a conviction.
But the threat of a prosecution on stat rape will cause him to plead guilty and accept a high penalty on whatever the warrant was for in exchange for letting this one go. and he will be ordered to stay away from you and other girls until you and they are at least 18 or the stat rape case with you will be reopened.
either way, say goodbye to him for at least a while and if you get back together later, expect your guy to be in and out of jail forever.
Sounds like a catch! What girl wouldn't be lucky to have him?
cops were called to the house for domestic violence , it just so happened your boyfriend had outstanding warrants and they arrested him. They will not beat a dead horse if all the stories are matching or very similar then they will not pursue the legalities of your relationship with him.The cops have better things to do than to dwell on whether or not your having sex with him or not
If the police don't have evidence (testimony or physical evidence) they won't press charges, not liking to lose in court
if u say u didn't have sex then they shouldnt' press charges. But if u did sleep with him, then it's best not to lie. Im so sorry that ur in this situation and i hope it gets better!
If there's no witness and you deny it, they can't.
But why are you messing with a 23 year old guy? You are looking for trouble.
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