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You are not alone. Wheither they admit it or not, most women have that fear. I did especially after having my children. I do the kgel exercises everyday, holding your urine stream and letting it go, holding it back and letting it go. This can help out tons. If you are in a loving relationship, he wont even think about this kind of stuff...well unless they watch a live childbirth:O) but that aside you will be fine. If you ever meet a guy who complains about your vagina being too loose just look at him and smile and say " Gosh i was just thinking about how tiny your penis is...".

I have had 2 children and to begin with I was a bit self conscious but after a while I realized that just like my hair which will grey one day and my breasts that will one day sag if someone does not love me and care for me exactly the way I am (especially the husband that gave me those beautiful children) then I am better off without them. Tightness is nice but nothing physical will last forever. I am comfortable with myself to way I am and every woman should come to terms with the true person (inside and out) that she really is.

I was always tight, but after having my first child I used a tampon on my period and it fell out!!! I was sure to start doing my kegel exercises seriously from that point on! I was never worried till that incidence, now I'm constantly asking my husband (which in my understanding he is sick of since he has no problems with it not being tight).

LOL "extrempoo"

AND NO I never worry about this... the body will open up like a big sail and get caught in the wind. We will ALL be ok even if you don't exercise it!

Thanks for asking this question... just made me smile !!

: )

I don't think of this very often. But, some women have trouble and some don't. Do the exercises and have a happy marriage and life.

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do pelvic floor exercises, they are called kegals, squeeze your muscles in down there, like when you try to hold in the toilet when you need to go. This is very good for you , especially when pregnant. try doing this around ten times a day. you can do it anywhere,sitting in the car, watching tv. and noone knows your doing it!

There is something called the "kegel master 2000", it exercises your pelvic floor muscles. They are about 100 dollars, but well worth it. You can buy one online.

Falling in a well? How wide and deep are you? Experienced wide, or grab the rope and carabiners it's time to go spelunking wide?

Save the tightness up front by taking out back more often.

Actually, buy a small vibrator and practice standing up and trying to hold it inside you. THIS WORKS.