I'm 17 now, about to graduate high-school.
I've had problems with girls throughout the years. The first girl appeared when I was around 13. Since then, I fell for 3 other girls until very recently. Every time I fall for a girl, we become friends and I get into them very very strongly. Every time, I got to a point when I asked them to go out with me and they rejected me. Not because we're friends, but because they just don't want it. Every time, it made me hate myself and be misery for months.
From my point of view, it's like, I'm spending my whole life for this one girl and all I get is a rejection?
After 4 times and at the age of 17, I started hating myself much deeper thinking if 4 different individuals just didn't want me I guess I'm just really really lame.
How to make these thoughts go away and why did my romantic relations turn so awful?
Answers & Comments
Your only 17 and had 4 tragic loses you have a lot more to look forward to! It sounds like you have confidence and rejection issues work on those 2 areas before you try to approach another female. If you just can't get things together with those 2 areas you should just wait for the right girl to come along but until then keep yourself occupied your focus should really be on school but just give it time and be prepared for more rejection and heartbreak. You have to go thru the rain to get to the rainbow