I admire maybe slight attracted to Adam Sevani Am I a Gay?
I realize it after I watch Step Up 3 . I dont want to be a gay and I dont know if I have HOCD(actually I dont know what it means I just heard it) . Please help me with my problem I dont want to be a gay I LOVE GIRLS btw im 15 years old and this is the second time that this happen to me.The first one after one week I just forgot it and never had a thought of being gay again after 1 week. And if I have HOCD how can i get rid of it by myself without any psychiatrist?
Sorry for my bad english :l I love yall girls out there :)
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People don't just come in black and white. There was a psychologist named Kinsey who produced a scale for human sexuality: it goes from 0 to 6, where 0 means that the person is strictly, absolutely, completely heterosexual, e.g. would never be even slightly attracted sexually to the person of the same gender/sex. 6 means the exact opposite, or being strictly homosexual. Kinsey himself believed (and I think proved) that most people are on the scale from 1 to 5, meaning that very few people are strictly homo- or hetero-sexual.
I think being attracted to just one actor of the same gender doesn't necessarily mean you are gay. It can simply mean that you can appreciate the aesthetics of a male body, which is a completely normal thing: even heterosexual people can see if someone is attractive or not, even if they're of the same gender.
So don't worry, enjoy life as it comes and don't put yourself in any self-therapy just yet :)
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