Is it possible to love someone you barely know?
okay so there is this guy named frankie. I met him last year in 8th grade. We had two classes together and we talked rarely. It was just small talk really. When I first saw him though...It was like seeing the sun for the first time. My heart stopped as well as my breath. It was just me and him. It took months for me to stay calm around him, but when he looks at me I get that same feeling I did when I first saw him. I have one class with him now. I haven't said a word to him this year. Now he goes to silverado. Another school. I feel like im in love but i don't know. I have been in other relationships but have never felt like this. I hope he will come back. so please help me. Am I in love??
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There is a big difference between love and infatuation. Considering how rare it is to find love in the eighth or ninth grade, he is probably not your soulmate. But what you feel is just as real as love when you're older because it's all you know so far. I would say that he will probably only be in your mind until you find someone new. When someone that takes your breath away like that it's hard to ignore your feelings but at the same time you barely know him and have hardly talked to him so I am forced to come to the conclusion that you are not in love with him, but infatuated with him. And believe me, infatuation can be nearly as painful as love. I really hope someone new comes into your life so you are able to move on from him. Best of luck!
Ok to Amy, doesnt matter about age, love can be any age. I agree it can be infatuation though... I felt that way about an actor but that is slightly different. I also met someone online that I currently feel infatuated with but I think it will pass. Is he really handsome? I think its more of a mental reaction to the way he looks (attraction) rather than his personality. get to know him, and if he does not have a gf, get to know the guy and good luck!
You are infatuated.
I've felt like that a few times but I got over them all.
You need to know the person inside and out before you can decide if the feeling is love
Infatuation. Crush. That's what the young'uns mistake for love and go gaga over making it a very big deal. Wait 'til you know someone so well and see all his shortcomings, the bad side. If you still feel that same feeling you had when he was just your crush then maybe you can begin calling that love.
I don't think it's love, it seems like you just admire him or have a crush on him. And yeah, you can fall in love with someone you don't know but you also fall in love with an identity of that person you think he might be. If he does not prove to be the person you thought he is, you might not hook up with him, at least that's what I think. Hope it helps :)
no. but you the feelings are just the beginning of the honeymoon feelings. This will end, but you must both keep the flame lit by dating once a week.
Good Luck.
you are just attracted to him and not really the love. lol. anyways, try to ask his number if you could text him and get to know more. who knows he has a GF already also.
You're in 9th grade. You aren't in love.
Then know him completely well and then start loving him.
Yes you are in love ,