i cut. I cut my left shoulder with scissors when im upset or mad ar just feeling down. i dont actually like cut, i drag the blade across my skin slowly. And after i feel a kind of releif like this is supposed to happen.
I hate me body i NEED to diet. im 5'5 and 114 [highest ever] idk whats wrong with me i have no control im A FAT PIG
im 15 years old and a girl
my friends say my parents hate me which is true
they all pretty much agree w. me on that.
am i self destructive? is there something wrong? i feel like there isnt anything worng that im not reallllyyy a cutter and stuff like that.
but i have about 8 cuts on my shoulder idkkkk what to think
sorry this was long.... what do you think?
Update:ive also taken advil when i didnt need it at all
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At 5'5" and 114 lbs you are far from fat. You simply have a distorted body image, as many girls do.
As for the cutting, it releases endorphins. That's why you get the rush afterward. Not a good habit to get into. You'll end up with a nasty infection one day, which will lead to an equally nasty scar. And that's on top of all the scars you've already begun to accumulate. There's also that not so lovely risk of accidently cutting too deep. As, the longer you continue to cut, the less it will help, and the deeper you'll have to go to get the same rush. It's alot better to find a healthier way of dealing with your emotions now, before it gets to that point.
Therapy is a beautiful thing. Perhaps you could try talking to your parents. If not, maybe the school guidance counselor? Mine was a Godsend when I was in high school, as I didn't feel I could talk to my parents. Her being there for me, really helped.
Back to your parents... they don't hate you. Promise. They simply don't understand you. Give them a chance.
Hang in there.
Come on, you're 5'5" and you're 114lbs? I doubt you even look fat, because your weight is normal. And what kind of friends agree that your parents hate you? Even if your parents really do hate you, don't dwell on it. Know that you have a decent life and you have shelter and all the necessary things for survival.
I don't think you mean kilograms, because you can't possibly be 250lbs.
Another thing, don't EVER put yourself down and say you're no good because you have a purpose in life. If you didn't, you'd probably be dead. Everybody has a purpose in life; sometimes they just don't see it.
You shouldn't take Advil when you don't need it. You just need to refrain from cutting yourself and taking Advil because eventually that could lead to fatal blood loss or a fatal overdose of the medicinal ingredients in Advil. If you're bored, you should find something to do that will keep your mind off thinking negatively about life. What's so negative to dwell on anyway?
Nobody's perfect, and you better know it. Just because you're not the most popular girl in school and you're not the hottest of the hottest doesn't mean your life sucks. It all depends on your personality anyway, and thinking negatively doesn't do any good for anybody.
Just know that there are people there for you (even if they might not be your parents) and be happy you're not homeless on the street. Life is beautiful.
I don't know if it would work, but some people say that listening to music like country or happy-sounding music can bring your mood up. I think it's true, because you always feel good and happy listening to country.
Enjoy life! Have fun while you're young! Don't do drugs and plan out your life and everything will transition smoothly in the end.
Your doctor can't tell your parents anything because of doctor/client confidentiality. Go to your regular physician and they can help you. I went on meds when I was 15 and I am still on them at 22, my life has improved so much and you will be so happy you went- I feel so much better!!
OMG thats horrible NEVER i repeat NEVER turn emo/ cut your self
Take a breather
I am stressing with school and friends and family but i dont CUT myself
you are self destructive, u need help, and also you are not a fat big that is really skinny. but you should find someone to talk to
i cut to but i cut my wrists and arms best bet is talk to a skool conslour they help a lot
when I'm frustrated i brake things.........gets the anger outta me .......or i cut my left arm with scissors becas my doctor says I'm emotionally depressed............