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you can't settle, sexually because you will always feel like something is missing. I did this for 14 years and looked else where for my "freaky" sex life. My wife nevrr knew about this, but i felt bad about it, and i left the marriage eventually because of this reason. I know get freaky and love it, i have been involved in several threesomes and a few orgies as well, and enjoyed them all very much!! If you do break it off with her because of this, it doesn't make you a bad person,it just means that you are not sexually compatible. Do what you feel is right for you, and think about the future, if it is like this now, chances are that she will not change. good luck on whatever decision you make. from one freaky guy to another!

I don't know honey, I guess it depends on how serious you both are in your current relationship. I do think love is very important but there's more to a lasting relationship than just love. If your not happy and if she's not willing to be open minded then maybe you should break up. There are a lot of freaky girl's out there to hon, but by the same token you can't fairly fault your current girlfriend for not wanting to participate in unsafe and freaky sex.

tough Q, dude. Obviously, if you are posting about this, it is an issue for you. Lots of questions tho...how old are you 2? How long have you been going out? Marriage in the plans?

Sex is very important in a relationship, especially when the relationship is still fresh. But, what I have discovered after being in a relationship for 11 years, there are far more important things than sex. having that "one" person for companionship and sharing your life is really what drives us in the long run.

I think this is gonig to take some real honest heart to heart talks with your gf. I think if you two can do that, you will prolly find your answer.