its stands for either one are the above !bbw==big beatiful women are it can also be big n sexy women;all we asked for is people not to be rude to us and treat us with a lil repect hay theres some of us who are taken and then there others that are either happy are bored with there love life and they just need a friend; u all can agree are deagree ! sorry for the mixed up!lets all be friends!