Im a guy...this is just my sisters account that she doesnt use...anyways heres the problem.....i feel so depressed....this happend 2 weeks ago,i think what triggered it was that I was dreaming,i think I question my sexuality and then I felt it was ok to be gay,then after I said that I felt a big kinda like a electrect shock through my body...(remeber it was a dream)now im just depressed,im not questioning of im gay,but I just have this wierd feeling,its hard to tell really but anyways im pretty sure im straight,im in love with a girl right no we,and I never had feeling for a guy,i do sometimes have unwanted thoughts like sum dude sucking a dick,but its never me and I aways get discussted it....anyways does anyone know whafs wrong with me????
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hey there :)
first of all, there is nothing wrong being a gay or a girl or a guy. All I know is that we are all humans.
furthermore, sometimes you get influenced by the society or when you learn something for the first time(for example: when I first found out about lesbian, i thought of being one too, things just came randomly in my mind--me kissing a girl and stuff). i m not a lesbian but i thought that way because i was nervous thus i was thinking excessively).
Right now, you are just confused. You did not tell your age. if you are a teenager, it is perfectly alright. you are still finding yourself. just go with the flow.
If you do not find guys attractive, it means you are just going through a phase.
and even if you are gay, trust me, there is nothing wrong with it :)
Sometimes depression is caused by lack of sleep. Sleeping a little more will put energy back into your body and when you are tired you break down and get frustrated more easily. If its really bad, talk to someone close, like your mom or dad. If its milder, I would pray or think about answers to your issues. Your sense of being gay is from a dream; I remember I had a dream about my uncle who died of cancer, and I was crying for the rest of the day. Dreams can scare you, make your cry, they can do whatever depending on hat kind of dream you had. You just had a gay one and you are now thinking like the dream. I hope I helped!
I think you feel depressed cause you are having those dreams they most be realistic for it to affect you like that but like the other person said let that one girl know you are inI love with her let her know your feelings and talk to someone about your dreams so you won't be depressed and try not to be alone all the time and go for a walk or something trust me this will work and will make you forget about those dreams and those thoughts and just try to talk to someone who you really trust so you can feel relief good luck man hope the best for you :)
You may be bicurious. This girl you have feelings for...does she know? Talk to her...if things work out between you then the thoughts may go away and things may get better. Alternatively.. .hook up with a bi guy...nothing sexual..just talk about how you feel. he may have been there before and may be able to help out and if you feel comfortable then kiss...maybe a little further...just to see how you feel and if it feels right...theres nothing wrong with being gay