Accept it or not. The truth is pornography has a huge contribution in crime today not only to the married couple. If you read the newspaper there are many crimes committed are related to sex and violence. Watching pornography is "corrupting ones mind."
Pornography, when used appropriately in a relationship, doesn't only not harm it, but usually helps improve it: it opens up communication about sexuality and desires, it can bring intimacy by watching it together, it can spice up and renew waning sex lives, it can educate and help them discover how to find the best pleasure they can achieve with their bodies. What causes problems in relationships are insecurity (which porn-viewing often exacerbates), jealousy (usually stemming from the insecurity), lack of open communication, dishonesty/secretiveness (which usually comes from the lack of open communication), lack of compromise on either side, etc., etc.. What causes marriage break-ups about porn is rarely about porn itself- rather, it's about how couples treat one another in relation to the porn.
I encourage everyone to get a good webfilter such as "K9 Web Protection." This is available at: http://www.k9webprotection.com/ Another good software to try is what is called accountability
software. This one will track questionable websites, and email them to a person, or persons, of
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Accept it or not. The truth is pornography has a huge contribution in crime today not only to the married couple. If you read the newspaper there are many crimes committed are related to sex and violence. Watching pornography is "corrupting ones mind."
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No, I don't, in fact.
Pornography, when used appropriately in a relationship, doesn't only not harm it, but usually helps improve it: it opens up communication about sexuality and desires, it can bring intimacy by watching it together, it can spice up and renew waning sex lives, it can educate and help them discover how to find the best pleasure they can achieve with their bodies. What causes problems in relationships are insecurity (which porn-viewing often exacerbates), jealousy (usually stemming from the insecurity), lack of open communication, dishonesty/secretiveness (which usually comes from the lack of open communication), lack of compromise on either side, etc., etc.. What causes marriage break-ups about porn is rarely about porn itself- rather, it's about how couples treat one another in relation to the porn.
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I encourage everyone to get a good webfilter such as "K9 Web Protection." This is available at: http://www.k9webprotection.com/ Another good software to try is what is called accountability
software. This one will track questionable websites, and email them to a person, or persons, of
your choice. It is called x3Watch and is available at: http://www.xxxchurch.com/07/ and
http://x3watch.com/ These are ideas both for parents, and persons who are struggling with an
"addiction" to internet pornography.