I am a Per-Op Transexual, and this girl in my college class has the HOTS for me, but she thinks that I am a lisbian. Although I'd love to be with her all well-I don't think that she knows what I am and not a 100% lesbian. How do I tell her this?. Created by Jeff. society-culture-en - cultures-groups-en - lesbian-gay-bisexual-and-transgender-en

I am a Per-Op Transexual.?

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I am a Per-Op Transexual.?

I am a Per-Op Transexual, and this girl in my college class has the HOTS for me, but she thinks that I am a lisbian. Although I'd love to be with her all well-I don't think that she knows what I am and not a 100% lesbian. How do I tell her this?

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roscophish

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Just be honest, I am in trans-man limbo myself so i understand your fears. It is so hard to explain to a woman that you are attracted to that you are different and to have to be vulnerable. It has also become unpopular with a great deal of the lesbian community to be a trans-man (speaking from personal experience). Many lesbians act as if we are turning our backs on the community and don't understand how if we love women we cant love ourselves as "women". My heart goes out to you and I wish you luck and strength! I just want you to know that there are women who will love you for who you are. I was lucky enough to find a woman who dose not care what package I come in, she just loves me! You don't deserve anything less!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ayden aka AJ

Honestly there are many lesbians that don't mind dating FTM's they don't have a penis. My gf loves butch women or FTM's such as myself so just ask her how she feels bout trans ppl ect...and get a feel how she reacts. and tell her

Meme M

just be honest. just flat out say it because if she cant accept it then tthere wasnt anything really there to begin with. i know its hard but whats a relationship based on a lie...or half a lie rather.