hi my name is red in i need some advice on my baby daddy situation we are not together anymore btw...first of all let me just start off by saying that he is so disrespectful to me when we argue he calls me all type of names he even tells me how much he hates me n wish he never had a baby by me he even told me a couple of times that he wish i was dead.in the most hurtful thing is when he told me that he hate his baby one time when we was argueing,he never was there by myside threw my whole pregnancy he never went to no doctor appointments with me in he will always promise that he will always be there but he never was i even caught him cheating when i was pregnant in still took him back i was always there for him when he had nowhere to go i will always let him sleep to my house,my baby is 4months now in he only calls in see him when he wants too he barely buy my baby anything i tryed so hard not to pick up his calls when he calls but its like i always be the bigger person in just try to get along with him for our son but he always act so childish,but his mom loves the baby so much she do alot for my baby in thats why im so confused in dont no what to do in this situation...im just so fed up with him i dnt wnt to keep my baby out his moms life but i really want to stop talking to him until he grow up but its so hard because i no i will see him if i drop my baby off to his house...so can anybody plz give me some advice im just so hurt right now.