I had a first date set up last Sunday with a girl I met on the internet. She is absolutly great, funny, beautiful. We had texted back and forth for probably 2 months before we finally had time to meet. She has 2 young kids and I run my own business. We had scheduled a date before but at the last minute her ex - husband changed his mind about what time he was picking the kids up and it (was on Father's Day) and we were unable to meet. I understand things happen and wasn't upset in anyway. Last Sunday we scheduled a date kind of last minute and she wasn't hungry so we decided to meet at a bar. BTW she lives 40 miles from me. I decided being she had her kids and got a babysitter I would drive to her town to make things easier for her if anything popped up. I told her I would text when I got close so she could meet me. I am completely unfamiliar with this town. So I got there and text her I was at the restaurant/ bar and they were closed and there was caution tape blocking the entrance. So she mentioned meeting at a bar down the road to which I agreed. In the mist of me waiting for her to get there I took a drive to check the town out and was programing my gps to see what there all was in the town. Anyways a cop pulled me over for apparently speeding and swerving. She texted and asked where I was and I told her I was pulled over. The cop was an *** and search my vehicle and founf a beer can in the back cup holder from the night before - not drinking and driving, from a buddy's house and thats where I put it for some stupid reason. So this cop was certain I had been drinking in which I hadn't and made me blow into 2 different breathalizers a total of 3 times. He had me pulled over for 32 minutes and made the comment,"guess you haven't been drinking but you were still speeding (7 over)". So he wrote me a ticket for 7 over and mind you now I am on fire upset for not only being late, sitting on the side of the road for over a half hour and getting a ticket. So when he finally let me go I wasn't even certain if she would still be waitinf, but I texted her that I was pulled over and put through hell and ended up with a speeding ticket and was really frusterated and just wanted to go home because I didn't want to meet her for the first time after what just happened. She wouldn't answer back and I went home. The next day (4th of July) I texted her that I was sorry and caught up with being upset and made a terrible decision going home instead of going to the bar to meet her and wanted to take her out to dinner and possibly the fireworks to make it up to her. She answered back she didn't want to be stood up again and I understood why she was upset. She asked details about what happened and I told her the officer's name and even offered to scan and email her the ticket. Then she wouldn't respond. So I left her one last text if she changed her mind to get a hold of me. Here it is 3 days later and I still haven't heard from her when we used to talk everyday to every other day. I feel really bad for what I did, but at the moment it seemed like the right thing to do. Sorry for this being so long, but I wanted all the details in it. My questions are these: What do I do now? I don't want to keep bothering her when she wouldn't even answer my last text 3 days ago. From a woman's perspective, is what I did that unforgivable? I know having kids its hard to get out, but I really like this girl and wanted to make a good first impression when I first met her and anyone that has gotten a ticket before knows you are not in a great mood when its over. Let alone being pulled over for 32 minutes. Longest I have ever been pulled over. Just searching for some advice.