how do you deal with the pain of jelousy? it hurts so so bad, and i cant get it off my mind. Some girl gave my boyfriend her number while he was working, and i found out today after i saw her run up to him, and asked, how the HELL is she? like it hurts so bad, and i get like that with everybody, i go out of control and push people i dont even know, and i beat girls up when they seem to flirt with him, or even if i just feel like theres something up, but there usually isnt and i make it all up in my head, and ah. usually somebody would be like, freaking out, but then be okay right? but after about 7 hours, im still feeling the same pain i did before, like it was the end of the world, i know this sounds weird probley, but it does feel like it. do you think i have a problem? or what should i do? (ive been thinking about breaking up with him, and even then i cant even consider being okay about him with other girls.) how can i stop doing this to myself!
Update:he didnt end up calling, he said he just wanted to be nice..
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If he didn't like you, then he wouldnt be with you! Unless he's a player...then i dont know aha but if you know he is a good guy, yet still gets numbers, then just push it away.
ok hunny, you have to trust your boyfriend, if you are having doubts there is a problem. I just went through the exact same thing. A girl kept hitting on my boyfriend at his work and he kept telling her to go away. One day she stayed when he was closing, and actually went up to him and kissed him. My boyfriend told her to stop becaue he has a girlfriend and he loves her. I was mad, but not jealous, because i am with my boyfriend not her. If your boyfriend is flirting with this chick. Dump Him.