do you date a virgin and what about sex.. if she wants to stay a virgin till marriage would you respect that or would ou die without sex.. i need some real answers and be honest and mature about it
Yes, I'd date a virgin.... would I wait until we were married? Probably not, in this day and age sex becomes an increasingly important part of a relationship people leave people over sexual issues, basically what I'm getting to is this, I'd like to get to know my partner in all aspects before I make the leap into marriage, on emotional AND intimate levels. What if you aren't compatible sexually? You may end up divorced and/or cheated on, or you could be doing the cheating yourself. In my opinion leaving yourself open to not knowing someone completely before getting married could very well be heartache waiting to happen. Don't get me wrong, sex isn't everything as it shouldn't be, but it also isn't nothing.
Personally, I could not be with someone who would not have sex with me. Im too young to be thinking about marriage. Its a great thing to do (the virginity part) but I don't think you should be dating, unless he is on the same boat as you.
If your boyfriend isn't willing to respect you, then maybe he's not the right guy. Go let him sleep with a different girl and reap the consequences. There are plently of guys that will respect you, but only if you look for quality not hottness.
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Yes! But I wait until I find the right One.....but don't have to deal with HIV too much that go around.....I wait until I enter marriage......
Yes, I'd date a virgin.... would I wait until we were married? Probably not, in this day and age sex becomes an increasingly important part of a relationship people leave people over sexual issues, basically what I'm getting to is this, I'd like to get to know my partner in all aspects before I make the leap into marriage, on emotional AND intimate levels. What if you aren't compatible sexually? You may end up divorced and/or cheated on, or you could be doing the cheating yourself. In my opinion leaving yourself open to not knowing someone completely before getting married could very well be heartache waiting to happen. Don't get me wrong, sex isn't everything as it shouldn't be, but it also isn't nothing.
Personally, I could not be with someone who would not have sex with me. Im too young to be thinking about marriage. Its a great thing to do (the virginity part) but I don't think you should be dating, unless he is on the same boat as you.
If your boyfriend isn't willing to respect you, then maybe he's not the right guy. Go let him sleep with a different girl and reap the consequences. There are plently of guys that will respect you, but only if you look for quality not hottness.
I am a virgin and i do want to remain pure until I'm married...
I HOPE to find a guy that would respect that ....
It hasn't happened yet...
But I pray that it wil one day...
Good guys are hard to find...
most girl that say "im waiting for marriage" are b/s ing, i would wait but i would be with others girls, and most guy would do the same
i date , and its not virgin (thanks 2 me)
but marriage is not the best thing a 19yo boy could think of
Sure, yes I would. It's all about love.
And the answer's as simple as that. :)