So there is this girl i like and i am pretty sure she likes me. I was at a golf tourny and i met her there... a few weeks later we started talking on facebook and whatnot and finally i asked her to come on a first date and she said yes... so we went bowling had a good time. The day after we went for a round of golf and that went all good as well. It is now the weekend and im wondering if i should ask her to come out for another round of golf this afternoon or maybe i should give her a little space and maybe wait a day or 2? I am kind of trying to make things a little faster than normal because i leave the city for 2 months right away and i am kind of trying to make her mine before i go... although i will be coming back on the weekends. Any input would be great thanks.
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You don't sound desperate. Call her now.
Just be cool and don't look desperate. Simply be yourself and enjoy the golf or whatever. Don't overly make eye contact or seem like you're really into her. Take a day or so to return her calls or emails. Even if you've got nothing to do, be busy. Don't lie, but be too busy to call her or email her right back. Just enjoy her as a friend and if it goes from there, great. Just be cool no matter what.
I dont think any girl will want a weekend boyfriend. Really. I mean how is that fair? If you really like her see where it goes... but dont focus on "making her yours" until you both know its worth it. Honestly, just because you are leaving town doesnt mean that the courting can be quick. Do you want a girlfriend or a bed partner when you are in town? Think about it.
It doesn't seem too desperate. I would however wait until she either calls you, or about 2 days to ask her again. Don't make it seem like your thinking about her all the time. "playing hard to get" actually does work :P
Go ask her out already! It sounds like you two had a great time together and like each other. So what are you waiting for?
ask her out to dinner a more romantic date or a movie because girls love attention and romance.
so go to dinner and a movie with her that will make her love you
No. Try and spend as much time with her as possible. I'm sure she likes you back.
Ask her out again, but maybe this time do something different.
ask her if she wants to go this afternoon, and if she cant, then ask her if shes available in a day or two.
if you like her then don't let pride stand in your way. ask her out and while on the work your charm dude. how can she resist you? :)