I was out having dinner with friends, and the whole "water spilling bitc*" thing came up.
What I found peculiar is how completely different the guys and the chicks saw it.
The ladies thought it was so grotesque, and came down hard on her, while almost all the guys blamed me for not giving her my number and shutting her down!!
I thought they were freakin kiddin but as it turns out, almost all of em said they'd gladly exchange numbers with her if the same happened to them.
I kept going on and on about how whor*-ish her actions were and how much trouble I would've surely gotten into later coz of her, but they never seemed to mind!!They actually thought she was being "brave" O.o and in their words "garee2a" (as in fiesty somehow!! O.o)
The thing is: that got me thinking of my non-Egyptian friends back in the gulf and how I'm pretty sure most of em would have prolly smacked the bitc* over the cheek given the chance. Don't get me wrong I'm not sayin they didn't date and make out with chicks, but at least they weren't as gullible as these Egyptian guys were.
So my question is: Has the way Egyptian guys and girls operate really grown that far apart?Do Egyptian guys really think a chick like that even deserves a second glance?If so, why would they allow themselves to do it when it's just a bitc* they're gonna spend a week or 2 with, but when they decide to get serious with a girl, she has to be the perfect nun whose never even uttered a word to a man before them?
I must admit I've been learning a lot ever since I came to Egypt, and to be honest most of it tends to be paradoxical.
Update:@Monkey: I don't really know your definiton of "conservative", but she was wearing a sleeveless top and a pair of skinny jeans.
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It's not only Egyptian guys lol, any guy would do it. She's easy lol so why not??? Theyre gonna have fun with her and than ditch her in the morning. They would never ever marry her.
In Egypt you would expect it to be differ though since we're supposed to be religious, but I guess not. How disappointing. Anyway, all the Egyptian girls that ive met and I were talking about how most Egyptian guys here are players, but in the end it's not gonna work out for them. They can go and do all that stuff (dating, exchanging phone numbers, flirting, makin out, etc. etc) and than find a good girl in the end to marry, but that's disgusting to me and unacceptable.
I'm completely innocent and I would never ever ever ever like ever get married to someone who dated, kissed, etc. etc. another girl. Definitely not. No way. He's gotta be pure. I wouldn't like it if the guy I was with did all this stuff (even holding hands lol) and than tried to get with me. Heck no.
Has the way Egyptian guys and girls operate really grown that far apart?
I guess so.
Do Egyptian guys really think a chick like that even deserves a second glance?
No she doesnt.
If so, why would they allow themselves to do it when it's just a bitc* they're gonna spend a week or 2 with, but when they decide to get serious with a girl, she has to be the perfect nun whose never even uttered a word to a man before them?
Because they have no morals. Double standards.
Egypt is a wierd place...haha. To be honest thought...Egyptian guys will give a second glance to ANYTHING. BTW...that story was funny...haha. Seems kind of cliche though.
EDIT: I believe you and all....but it sounds like one of those things you would see in a movie, you know? Out of curiousity, was the girl that did all of that conservative looking..lol?
I meant like a higabi...cuz it would be unexpected you know? (well i guess I'm being stereotypical here/judgemental..since I don't wear the higab and I would never do that)....lol
3alaa i just love ur drama.............keep it going,,,,betsaleeni.........
i wanted to comment that most guys would dream of the opportunity u got...they probably think u r crazy u walked away,,,,but i think u are decent and yes u knew a lose girl when u saw one....
what amazes me is the change that happened in society...some think it is normal to exchange numbers and talk to strangers..while i think it is trashy and thats to say the least!!!!
in ur 4th paragragh u talk about getting serious....whose gonna get serious with a girl they '''''''picked up''''' ofcourse not ya a3alaa....it's a 1 night stand....the whole idea is repulsive and sickening and i am glad u had the good sense to walk away......
@ 3alaa.. i never go to tivoli at night ba7'af men el naw3eyaa di ...elli betetla3 beleil...i go for coffee in the mornings only...
@monkey ..u r a girl..?
@monkey there are muhajabat and non muhajabat that act that trashy...it has nothing to do with what they are wearing...it is their morals and ethics,,,which i am sure they have none of.....
Yabni so7abak dool 2alo kda bas shan ye3'ezok or they're just jealous from your gorgeous bright eyes ^^ believe me law kan 2ay 7ad tany menhom hwa eli 7asalo el mawkf da kan hay3ml zayak aw 2a5ro kan hayo3od yetkalm m3aha w y3ml nemra 3aleha bas i doubt eno kan momkn ye7sal aktar men kda.. w b3den wala tz3l nafsak, kolaha youm aw youmeen isa w tero7 makan tany w ye7salak nafs el 7ewar tany :P
Walhai ana shayfa en el enta 3amalto da el sa7..
Msh el mafrood tdeeha nemretak
La asbab kteer menha
El hya 3amaleto da msh gor2a wala 7aga
De safala w msh la2ya 7ad yrabeeha aslan
Tab ana walad w ba2olak enno le 3amltu kan sa7. Yabne enta leh 3awez tedy wa7da rakamak mesh 3aref aslaha w faslaha? Bet la2iha lama mshit garyet wara wa7ed tany. Enta mshit bel tari2 el amen w 3amelt el sa7.
fair dinkum answer?? masr is just becoming like any other western country and nothing should really surprise you anymore
me personally may not have thought shi*t like this happens cuz i havent been there since eight years and in general dont even know any masrys here so the only thing informing me about masr is this section
and now its like whatever, here, there-there all the same
and guys are like that everywhere
ok wat she did is not being garee2a wat that grl did was just called being desperate
i am though surprised that u turned her down cuz most guys would turn down a girl in that situation if she is fugly
i completely agree with u with how hypocritical it is of many egyptian guys to go like oh ana 3omry ma7tgawez bent kont mashya ma3aha el 7atgawezha lazem tekoon mo7tarama and never dated anyone them wth is the point of u dating if its not gonna get u anywhere and dont u think if u want a grl like that shell also want a guy who never dated
howa eh ely 7asal fel balad ya ged3an el balad bazet bazet lol
begad enta kol youm betfage2ny belbete7kheh we besbeten kol mada our morals bet2el mesh 3rfa ba3d keda hateb2a fen we mesh 3rfa el far2 bena we ben the foreign countries eh bas hane3mel eh rabena yehdy