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Share your thoughts and feelings with him.

You need to tell him you are an anal virgin and he will be your first.its best he fingers your anus with water based lube while masturbating you then two fingers so you know what the feeling is like, you can do this on your own say while in a warm bath use a small dildo or vibrator and water based tube on your anus and just explore what the feeling is like having somethin up your rectum, you will massage your prostrate sand that is very enjoyable feeling for guys. Enjoy the experience anal sex can hurt the first time but it gets better the more you do it. The other thing to try (though its quite hard to master) is to try and pull in your anus (practice pulling in your stomachs muscles ) as he penitrates you this will squeese his penis and really give him great enjoyment.

your first time can be uncomfortable, as every body says use lots of lube. you might want o try a dildo before hand. peel a cucumber, just the green down to the slickery layer. some of you may not like that; but it make a good well lubed dildo. it will stretch you out and give a some idea of what he will feel like. he will feel better because he is warm and has a litle more flex. just relax.

Well be sure you use an enema and are clean before hand. Relax and use water based lube. Other then that do what comes natural. You don't have to groan loudly or even at all. Just do what you feel. What you see in porn is not real life. As long as you *** he knows he has done well.

Hi Just Wondering!

If it is your first time to bottom then you might find it difficult to be too enthusiastic! Make sure that he uses a LOT of lube on his penis and in your anus. Then he must be very, very gentle with you. Personally, what turns my partner on is if I moan and tell him how wonderful he is. I hope that you enjoy it. If it hurts a little the first time then don't worry, it gets better with experience! Have fun!

Perhaps talk to him beforehand, and ask him what he'd like you to do. Good communication is key.