How do you handle a petsistent guy?
Well I have a guy chasing after me who I find very annoying. I just do not think we click. I told him many times that I am busy and I said I would call him when I have time and I never called. I think anyone with some brains would already understand that I am not interested..but somehow he thinks he just needs to persist more. I hate being mean or rude to poeople, but I am just really feeling annoyed to the point where I am afraid if he calls one more time I am going to scream at him. What should I do?
Update:He even called me as I was typing this question. I guesss either when I a not interested I can not get my message across or some guys just have hard time taking No for an answer.
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OK, now re-read your question, and you'll have the answer to a lot of your own questions. It's all about the chase. You are "hard to get" for this guy, so it makes him want you all the more! Now imagine YOU being that hard to get for the guys who want you. They will also have to work very hard to "get you" and once they do they will appreciate it all the more.
I know, I hate games too! I hate playing the hard to get thing! When I like someone, I just wish it was that easy to hook up or start a relationship. But it isn't! The proof is in your question.
Think about it before you pass up on this one.
Be blunt and to the point. When i liked this girl at school we went as a class group to a month long camp. I thought that this was my chance to get her. She probably dated every other guy that i was friends with and when I asked her out, she tried to hide from me. I had no confidence with girls after that. She also spread weird rumours about me being creepy to. Now she was a *****. So do not be like her and just go up to him and say look I don't really like you right now so just give me some space. If he likes you he will do that. Make sure you use a comforting tone but a hint of irritated at the start
Well, since he seems to not understand your signs of disinterest, tell him when he calls you're in a relationship and it's getting serious. This will dissuade him and even though it's not true, he'll go away. Good luck
he sounds like a stalker and probably has a dark side and is probably watching you with a telescope from and abandoned building 2.3 miles away as we speak. there is a tiny side table next to him with a bottle of lotion and a plastic t-rex on it.
you should get a restraining order asap
Well have you actually said no? and made it clear there is no chance? becuase some people just need to hear that.
a baseball bat would work