I've been told I am handsome by many people, and most say if there was something wrong with me, or if i was ugly, they would tell me that. I even put my picture on a site where they rate me, and I was around 8.5/10. But still, I have no self-confidence and no self-esteem, and therefore struggle meeting girls, because inside I wonder why they would want to spend time with me. It's kinda embarrassing, because I'm a guy, and I'm supposed to be sure of myself. I feel like I am wasting my life away, because I'm getting older and still have the same problems I had when I was a teenager. How can I feel good about myself, how can I break the habit? I would feel much better about myself if I was successful with women, but I am afraid to approach them because I have no confidence... kind of a catch-22. Help me!