Well, I've always been really close with one of my sisters, and lately we've been spending a lot of time together. I think I'm starting to "like-like" her. What should I do? Is this normal?
It's fine to be close and feelings of admiration and adoration are perfectly normal. However; anything beyond that is a problem.
I'm guessing you are in your teens and hormones have started to kick in big time (that's usually when inappropriate feelings pop up). Since it's your sis you spend time with, that's where your feelings are getting directed.
Get a handle on it. Incest is not the way you want to go here. Direct your attention elsewhere (does she have any friends?). Spend less time with her if that's what it's going to take.
Whatever you do; don't indulge or fixate on these feelings. It has the potential to do major damage to the relationship and both of your lives.
No it's not normal, but it is normal to feel the strongest about those that you spend the most time with. It is good to be close to your sister, you should be the protective brother, but it may do you some good to go out and find a nice girl to start dating.
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It's fine to be close and feelings of admiration and adoration are perfectly normal. However; anything beyond that is a problem.
I'm guessing you are in your teens and hormones have started to kick in big time (that's usually when inappropriate feelings pop up). Since it's your sis you spend time with, that's where your feelings are getting directed.
Get a handle on it. Incest is not the way you want to go here. Direct your attention elsewhere (does she have any friends?). Spend less time with her if that's what it's going to take.
Whatever you do; don't indulge or fixate on these feelings. It has the potential to do major damage to the relationship and both of your lives.
Good luck
No it's not normal, but it is normal to feel the strongest about those that you spend the most time with. It is good to be close to your sister, you should be the protective brother, but it may do you some good to go out and find a nice girl to start dating.
Well i would say this is not normal but you got to do what you got to do. If you want to like your sister then thats just weird. But thats you not me.
nah i think your fine. That would be really wrong its called incest. Maybe you shouldn't spend so much time with her..?
No, it's not. "Like-like" is reserved for people outside of your family.
not cool stop hangout with her and find someone else to hangout with
THAT'S YOUR SISTER NOT COOL
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