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What my friends started doing (they've been married 6 years) they started having a "Date Night" on Friday or Saturday night. They would choose a nice restaurant or one they love and get dressed up for it. Not just jeans a shirt but a nice dress with your hair and makeup done up. Its important to "date" each other like ya'll did when ya'll first met. Go out to a movie after dinner. Flirt, play with his foot under the table lol ya know stuff you might have done back in the day. Thats spice!

Noooooo!! ehehe It's not the way it's going to be unless you want it to be this way.

Have you told him how much you love him lately? How much you appreciate the things he does? Have you done something romantic lately? How about candle lights for dinner? Or how about you play on the internet with him?? How about talking to each other.. telling jokes?? Take the weekend to go to Florida?? Or anywhere else fun?? If you cannot afford at the moment, why dont you start out by going to the mall.. or the movies... or a local concert?

Guys loooove when you spoil them.. and treat them like "kids".. so go on.. spoil him a little bit, tell him he looks good when he dresses up, get him a nice cologne and tell him he smells good... play cards..invite friends or family over.. oh gosh.. there's just so much stuff.. i could be here forever telling you.. :) Start out by not holding up your pride saying "he should be the first on to make the move..."

Good luck!!

hi there me and my wife have been together for about 11 years and we got in a routine and we found that as we go a long we fine some thing different in what we do.like finding some different about your wife like a game.and she did the same.you see you have to fine thing's that get you work up you know fun thing's.the most importation thing is keep talking to each other.keeping that open at all time's.having the life you wont is hard but you have to work at it.it's never ease doing some thing you love.just try to remember you love each other and all ways try to be there for each other.that's is the most importation.i know some time's we fine are self's doing a lot of thing's.but you have to make time for your self and for each other.when you fine your self's get in that same old thing do some thing that you have nerve done.that way it well keep thing's guessing.you understand.make sure that you tell each other that you love one another.be friend's,be lovers,be all you can be to one another ok.and the most importation never go to bed mad at each other always kiss and tell each other you love them.i hope that i have help you on this.your friend fred

Remember One thing disconnect internet most of the problems ud be solved if there is very important let him go and do that on internet cafe it is the Net that eats away most of the interest of a person resulting in frequent quarrels just do that you will find many things of interest at home.

Maybe you should be more assertive. Call him into the kitchen and just starting making out with him as if you were teenagers. Start being romantic in places you really shouldn't, places where you can get caught this adds excitement and danger in the relationship. You start to feel young again.

I would do something completely unpredicatable and out of the box.....re arrange the furniture in the room and put on some new music. Tell him that you are no longer his wife for a night, that you are a sexy nurse who needs to perform her duties. Make him dinner on a tray, feed it to him, wear a nurses outfit, then do a dance to entertain him.

Hun just do something spontaneous surprise him with a night out or a night in. Maybe that is all it will take to ignite that spark, what have you got to lose. GOOD LUCK AND BEST WISHES!!!

I mean you have to do something to change the routine. Do something to make him not want to get on the computer. I mean you knew what it took to get him now do what it takes to keep him.

Go on a romantic date.