I moved in with my family in July of 2012 and my siblings got upset due to my fiance coming with me , they don't like him much , so i pay 500 a month to live with my parents and help take care of my mom, (when i had a job ), so in December i got laid off and my one of my cars got Repo and i couldn't come up with the money to pay rent my Dad didn't say anything when I told him I couldn't get him the money , now its march and I recently started collecting unemployment so now i am saving the 500 up and he demanding the money , he promised me that if i take care of my mom the insurance company would pay me but i now realize that was just bs ,well I found out that i was pregnant two weeks ago and told my family they were upset and my brother got really angry with me saying i am a **** up and i am going to live off the system, since then hes been rude to me and try to fight with me any chance he gets , i told my dad i am moving out in April cause my fiance started a full time job , so my Dad got upset and with my other car broken down my family isn't doing anything but adding stress to me , they make me, feel like if i do anything to help my self they get offended or will lose everything , or that i m abandoning them and that im a traitor, i want to do everything to help my family but the way they treat me makes me feel like they are trying to control me , my Brother already tries to control my dad and my sister uses his cars for everything , i am the youngest out of the three my brother is 27 my sister is 22 and i am 21 if anyone could help plz let me know what would help i am only on here to ask do to not know my relatives and my mother is unable to talk so i have no one to really turn to
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Absolutely move out in April or as soon as possible. It appears the situation there is very dysfunctional and you need to start living your own life. They are old enough to take care of themselves. You need to plan your future and concentrate closely on it now. You also cannot do that with this emotionally draining you at the same time. Stay on track with your plan with your fiance to move out with him next month. It will help you grow much better for you and your new family best.
It sounds like you need a break from your family, especially since they are being horrible towards you.