Ramadan: Guys How do you control your sexual desires?
only guys can understand this. Like really hard sometimes, which leads you think of doing zina. You know fasting everytime is impossible . . .and you a student to get married.
You can cultivate your spirit by pulling out weeds of desire growing near the roots of your soul. Lust for sex, wealth, power, fame and glory often go deeper than we realize. We must root them out and quell the uncontrollable hunger they arouse. How do we do that? We can start by fasting.
A man who eats too much cannot strive against laziness, while a gluttonous and idle man will never he able to contend with sexual lust. Therefore, according to all moral teachings, the effort towards self-control commences with a struggle against the lust of gluttony—commences with fasting . . .
And yet, just as the first condition of a good life is self-control, so the first condition of a life of self-control is fasting.
Islam encourages men and women to marry and frowns on celebacy. Those who cannot find spouses should remain chaste.
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) recommended fasting to help overcome sexual appetites:
DON'T YOU ALL STUDY? IM BORED WITH THE SUPERFICIAL ANSWERS GIVEN. Lowering gaze, fasting, don't mix openly with opposite sex! WTF?
OF COURSE, WE MUST DO THOSE! BUT YOU ALL NEVER SPECIFIED THE WAY AFTER ITS DONE. OR HOW TO BE DONE! NO WONDER EVEN A SCHOLAR OR YOUNG ULAMA OR THOSE WHO HAVE KNOWLEDGE STILL DO THE FORBIDDEN ONES CAUSE THEY ONLY KNOW HOW TO DO IT SUPERFICIALLY! HEAR, SUPERFICIALLY! THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO MAINTAIN THEMSELVES AFTER DOING WHAT'S GIVEN. SHOW SOME IN-DEPTH ON HOW TO DO IT! ARE YOU ALL A FCUK8NG STONE OR HUMAN BEINGS?
A MAN IS ALWAYS ON THE INTELLECTUAL SIDE. AND WHEN THEY SEE A SUITABLE 'HOLE', THEY DON'T CARE WHETHER THEY LOOK LIKE A UGLY BEAST OR A HUMAN FEATURES. AS LONG AS THEY CAN POKE THEIR CORK TO FILL IN THEIR LOW EMOTIONAL RESERVES, TO FEEL SATISFIED. AND I MEAN LOW IN LEVEL, NOT RANKING!
WHEN THEY FAST, THEY HAVE TO UNITE THE FEELING OF INTELLECTUAL AND THEIR RELIGION. TRY TO OVERLAP THE FEELING OF SEXUAL DESIRES FROM THE PLEASURES OF FASTING, DO IT UNTIL THE FEELING OF BAD SEXUAL DESIRES DISSOLVES IN THE GOODNESS OF FASTING THAT COMES OUT OF IT. SO THAT, YOUR ED8 BRAIN CAN CONTROL YOUR SEX DESIRES AND IT WILL TUNE TO YOUR COMMAND, NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND! LEARN! DON'T BRAG AND INSULT THOSE WHO KNOW MORE AND WHEN OPPOSE, YOU ALL BLAME 'ARROGANT' TO ME!
YOUR PROPHET PBUH ADVISED YOU TO GAIN KNOWLEDGE TILL THE END OF TIME! YOU FOLLOW RELIGION, NOT RELIGION/GOD FOLLOW YOU! ED8S.
ARE YOU PRAYING TO ALLAH WITH YOUR SPIRITUAL AND PHYSICAL OR JUST PRAYING TO THE WALLS? CAUSE YOUR ATTITUDE RESEMBLES THE WALLS THAT YOU PRAY. NO SPIRIT IN YOUR PRAYERS AND IT SHOWS IN THE OUTCOME OF IT. ALWAYS SUPERFICIAL! WAKE UP! HAVE SOME INITIATIVE TO HAVE SOUL CONNECTION WITH YOUR OWN GOD!
E: Nice one Zahid. May God bless you! (I mean your God) Hehe...have to upgrade my English to explain my abstract thoughts =D
Greetings! I'm not a Muslim, but I think I have the answer to your question. The ban on sex during Ramadan is only during the day. I would think that people who are seriously celebrating Ramadan are thinking of other things to keep them busy.
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Two pints of beer and a tube of K-Y usually helps!
You can cultivate your spirit by pulling out weeds of desire growing near the roots of your soul. Lust for sex, wealth, power, fame and glory often go deeper than we realize. We must root them out and quell the uncontrollable hunger they arouse. How do we do that? We can start by fasting.
A man who eats too much cannot strive against laziness, while a gluttonous and idle man will never he able to contend with sexual lust. Therefore, according to all moral teachings, the effort towards self-control commences with a struggle against the lust of gluttony—commences with fasting . . .
And yet, just as the first condition of a good life is self-control, so the first condition of a life of self-control is fasting.
Islam encourages men and women to marry and frowns on celebacy. Those who cannot find spouses should remain chaste.
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) recommended fasting to help overcome sexual appetites:
Lower your gaze and hold fast it will reduce your sexual desire.
Fasting help us to learn self control which is very helpful
DON'T YOU ALL STUDY? IM BORED WITH THE SUPERFICIAL ANSWERS GIVEN. Lowering gaze, fasting, don't mix openly with opposite sex! WTF?
OF COURSE, WE MUST DO THOSE! BUT YOU ALL NEVER SPECIFIED THE WAY AFTER ITS DONE. OR HOW TO BE DONE! NO WONDER EVEN A SCHOLAR OR YOUNG ULAMA OR THOSE WHO HAVE KNOWLEDGE STILL DO THE FORBIDDEN ONES CAUSE THEY ONLY KNOW HOW TO DO IT SUPERFICIALLY! HEAR, SUPERFICIALLY! THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO MAINTAIN THEMSELVES AFTER DOING WHAT'S GIVEN. SHOW SOME IN-DEPTH ON HOW TO DO IT! ARE YOU ALL A FCUK8NG STONE OR HUMAN BEINGS?
A MAN IS ALWAYS ON THE INTELLECTUAL SIDE. AND WHEN THEY SEE A SUITABLE 'HOLE', THEY DON'T CARE WHETHER THEY LOOK LIKE A UGLY BEAST OR A HUMAN FEATURES. AS LONG AS THEY CAN POKE THEIR CORK TO FILL IN THEIR LOW EMOTIONAL RESERVES, TO FEEL SATISFIED. AND I MEAN LOW IN LEVEL, NOT RANKING!
WHEN THEY FAST, THEY HAVE TO UNITE THE FEELING OF INTELLECTUAL AND THEIR RELIGION. TRY TO OVERLAP THE FEELING OF SEXUAL DESIRES FROM THE PLEASURES OF FASTING, DO IT UNTIL THE FEELING OF BAD SEXUAL DESIRES DISSOLVES IN THE GOODNESS OF FASTING THAT COMES OUT OF IT. SO THAT, YOUR ED8 BRAIN CAN CONTROL YOUR SEX DESIRES AND IT WILL TUNE TO YOUR COMMAND, NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND! LEARN! DON'T BRAG AND INSULT THOSE WHO KNOW MORE AND WHEN OPPOSE, YOU ALL BLAME 'ARROGANT' TO ME!
YOUR PROPHET PBUH ADVISED YOU TO GAIN KNOWLEDGE TILL THE END OF TIME! YOU FOLLOW RELIGION, NOT RELIGION/GOD FOLLOW YOU! ED8S.
ARE YOU PRAYING TO ALLAH WITH YOUR SPIRITUAL AND PHYSICAL OR JUST PRAYING TO THE WALLS? CAUSE YOUR ATTITUDE RESEMBLES THE WALLS THAT YOU PRAY. NO SPIRIT IN YOUR PRAYERS AND IT SHOWS IN THE OUTCOME OF IT. ALWAYS SUPERFICIAL! WAKE UP! HAVE SOME INITIATIVE TO HAVE SOUL CONNECTION WITH YOUR OWN GOD!
E: Nice one Zahid. May God bless you! (I mean your God) Hehe...have to upgrade my English to explain my abstract thoughts =D
if u live near a masjid, whenever this happens to u, go to the masjid, the atmosphere there puts u in a completely different state of mind..
salam... :)
Lowering your gaze shall help you in controlling your sexual desires. :)
Greetings! I'm not a Muslim, but I think I have the answer to your question. The ban on sex during Ramadan is only during the day. I would think that people who are seriously celebrating Ramadan are thinking of other things to keep them busy.
At night, let the chips fall where they may.
dont have the answer, sorry.
but sisters have this problem too, their just too shy to talk about it, which is good.
salam
Honestly answer: Masturbate.
Cut your balls off, that always work.