I fall seriously in love with my girlfriend and she is now a half month pregnant. We are both 15 years old. I need any help. She is the one for me. I love her so much. I can't imagine my life without her. Any ideas on how to confront this to our parents? or what would you do it you were me?
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I would suggest you get a job. Babies are expensive and they need a lot of care. I would also make sure that she is pregnant, 2-4 weeks is hard to determine. I would bring both of your parents together to tell them at the same time, this will avoid a big scene from either side as they will not want to overreact in front of each other. This may be your best bet. You need to stay in school and so does your girlfriend. That is the only way you will both get ahead in life. I really hope that you find the local baby program and enroll so that you can take classes and become prepared. Good luck
Well do keep in mind that she is not even a full month pregnant yet. Alot can happen in the early stages of pregnancy. Also you do need to have support beside each other. Do you think your family will understand? How long have you been seeing one another? Have a baby is a big responsibility and I am 27 and just had a baby and it is alot of deal with right away. You do need to let your family know and there are many agencies that can give you and your girlfriend great family support and counseling. I sought out help when I found out I was pregnant. Try looking up Family and Children Services in your area. Good luck
It's great that you want to stick by your girlfriend. Most guys run off when this happens.
Talk to your parents together. They'll both be disappointed, but they'll be the most help to you. I would simply tell them straight up and not beat around the bush.
I highly encourage you to give your baby up for adoption. With parents as young as you are, it's the most loving thing to do for your child. I have a very good friend whose mother gave birth to her when she was 15. She gave her daughter up for adoption and the daughter is now one of the most incredible people I know. She was able to have a great life because her mother didn't abort or raise her, but adopted her out.
Also, be sensitive to your girlfriend at this time. She will start having lots of fatigue and emotions as the hormones rage through her body. She will start feeling self-conscious as she gains weight and she'll feel like people think she's a tramp. Be loving and encouraging to her.
I'm proud of you. You sound like you're more of a man than some 30 year olds, in how you take responsibility.
It's a good thing you care for her like you say. But in 3 to 4 years, i'm almost sure it'll be different between you two.
So you should've been more careful and now you're having to own up to what you did and that's great!!
This is definately a sad situation....you have to tell the parents so basically they can take care of the child so you two can go to school. Everyone around you is gonna have to support this baby, because you're too young.
I really don't know, the two of you are gonna have to sit down with them together and just let it out. Prepare yourself for the reactions, because you can't expect them to be good.
I Believe that the first thing you two should do is sit down and talk about what you two want to do; remember she is the pregnant one. sit down with both of your parents and talk to them. now remeber they are your parents and they want the best for you, they're gonna act out of emotion FIRST! but there are many options for you guys to do. i remember when i was 15 i thought i had the "perfect" guy for me. I think everyone has been in that situation at that age. both of you have not experienced life, you havent had a taste of adulthood and you havent even finished your childhood. i would suggest open adoption for both of you, it's really not as bad as everyone makes it appear to be. dont "grow up" over night if you dont have to. you two should finish high school go to college try living with each other and learning each other first. the person i thought was my "perfect match" has left me 5 years later as a single mother of TWO kids at 22 years old. so i'm telling you all of this from experiece, TRUST ME!
Maybe you should have worried about what you would do before she got pregnant!
You guys both need to sit down with your parents and tell them ASAP because to be quite honest, the longer you wait, the more difficult this could be to deal with.
It's good that you love your girlfriend because now you are tied to her forever as the mother of your child.
First of all you need to tell your parents as soon as possible that way she can see a Dr. that way they can make sure that her and the baby are going to be healthy there is no way around telling your parents. The longer you wait the worse it will be and if you love her you will tell your parents. COngratulations on being a father and for her being a new mom. You 2 have a new big responsibility ahead of you look out for whats best for the baby. GET HER TO THE DR.!!!!
15 ...in love? i find that hard to believe, but whatever, and how do u know that shes only a half month pregnant, wouldnt it be a little too early to tell?? theres absolutely NO easy way to confront your parents u just have to tell them, sorry for your luck
You both are really Babes Yourself . Consider All. I Do believe that Teens who Try CAN Be Great Parents. But What about the REST of Your Lives...Are You READY for that kind of Commitment ??
The best way to handle this would be to be honest. Sit both of your parents down, and tell them straight up. Also, show them with your actions that you are going to be there, and are willing to take responsibility for the baby. Good luck!