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There are likely more of us than you know all around all the time. I am not afraid to put my pic on my profile. If I went into the female restroom would I be noticed? If I went into the mens room I would surely be noticed and who knows what might happen. Personally I try to use the family room when there is one around but that is not always a choice. After all when nature calls she does and there is no real choice is there LOL.

Besides I am in there to do my business and wash up and get back to shopping...

We will always be quite aware of how we were born, all the pain we have faced. Also many have considered suicide and quite a few did succed. For the most part we do try to fit into socity, even when it does not want to accept us. To see someone that looks female then they should go to that room. If they go to the male one then cops get called... or much worse.

So I may not fool you going in, I am just looking for acceptance and a little understanding. Just simply put Live and let Live. I am not trying to see female body parts either, I could look that up on the web with no worries. I sure would not be looking for a date in there. I am just taking care of body functions so I dont pop LOL.

I hope you can understand a little.

Hugs

Kim Lynn

I'm guessing you don't know too many transsexuals.

I do; my partner is a transwoman, and I've met many of her friends, and the people in her support groups.

It took me a long time to accept that she was a woman; we're talking about the man I married, the father of our daughter, so it wasn't easy. The first time she follwed me into a public toilet was embarrassing, but we got over it, and no-one else took any notice. It set me to thinking; who really pays attention to the other women in a public loo? And even if you do, how do you decide who's a born woman and who isn't? Unless you insist on seeing there birth certificate, YOU DON'T KNOW.

Let me give you an example; we know a couple who are devoted to each other, Jane and Karen. Jane is over 6 feet tall, built like an East German athlete, big and clumsy, and has a deep voice. Karen is petite and pretty; she's 5'3, size 10, and very sweet. One of them has had two children, and the other is a transsexual.

Which one would you feel unhappy about, going into a public toilet beside you?

If you said "Jane", you've proved my point. Jane is the mother of two handsome boys, she was born a girl, and has been a girl all her life.

If you said "Karen" I know you're lying. Karen has never, ever been challenged to "prove" she's really a girl. and when the two of them are together, everyone assumes that Jane is the transsexual.

Transsexual women are just as real as born women, and have just as much right to be accepted as such. You need to meet a few and learn that.

The reason why we change our sex is because we're trying to be comfortable in our bodies. A transsexual's mind and body gender doesn't match. Of course, our biological sex chromosomes can never be changed, but we are fixing what we can to match our brain's sex. It's really a form of a intersex condition. Do some research on this topic before you judge.

We shouldn't belong to the lgb community unless our sexual orientation is gay, lesbian, or bi-sexual. Some transsexuals came from the gay community before they transitioned, then figured out they were actually transgender in the end. Gender identity and sexuality are two separate things! Why do they lump us with homosexuality? That's ludicrous!

Why the uncomfortability in the bathroom? We gotta pee like everyone else. We don't want to rape you, just wanna take a dump like the rest of the world! Inequality in the dam bathroom! Now, that's a shame!

we are all just people. it doesn't matter who has what parts or when they had them. and i felt awkward enough in the restroom at work today with the UPS lady...and neither one of us ever had a penis. and its not like taking a crap or ripping a bloody tampon out of your vag is a turn on. i really don't think its a big deal

From what I remember the DNA isn't that clear cut. Of course I accept them as my own. It's you that I'm having a bit of a problem accepting.

I think if they have the personality of the new gender and the parts of the new gender the genetic sex is irrelevent

Does DNA have any impact on the pissing experience of the person in the next stall?

Whats the big deal? Wars, racism, governments, genocide,Natural disasters. I think personally are a more important issue than people who risk everything just too have a normal life. Me personally it doesn't bother me, Its the last thing I think about when I pee.

First of all..How would i know if they were trans sexual??...I don't care what any woman do in the bathroom.

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