typical guy problem?
i am majorly crushing on this sweet, hot, nice, and funny guy. like i would die for him. i started a new school and he is my new crush. but he has a gf :( so what should i do. i like when we talk but its not often. and then this girl who i really don't like is always flirting with him. and i know hes not my bf but i don't like it when she flirts with him. (no one really likes her). but then my so called "friend" flirts with him too even though she say she doesn't like him. but anyways i like his girlfriend we are friends i just don't like that he is dating her. i mean they are a cute couple but... and today they danced out side.(don't ask me why cause i have no idea). and he kissed her on the hand.T.T
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listen to me... iim only 13 years old but.... ii have dealt with guys like this before... all i can say is play it cool act like it doesn't bother u when hes with other girls. flirt with him all you want... just ask him if you can be friends with benefits... he kissed her on the hand? ouch. make him want u more hang out with him a little more... give him ur number talk all night... trust me if u two are a perfect match he can't resist your bright and beautiful mind.. don't pay attention to ur haters pay attention to the people who love u and if people start hating u if ur flirting with him... just say, " Thankyou for spending all of your time thinking of me... ii didn't know much u cared?! lol it pisses them off.. and im going to tell you something that u probably wont hear. Friends will back stabb you and friends wont last forever... im sorry but if u like this guy... u have to let him know hes yours and no one elses. let them know he's yours... take contol...
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A boyfriend that tries moving past where you are at if you are intensely making out isn't something you are going to get away of. As long as he stops every time you say "No" you have a respectful guy. If he starts begging or tries to get forceful then you have a problem. We all have instincts and urges and wanting to have sex is not a bad thing, but trying to force or coerce someone into it is. Even the sweetest guy in the world wants and needs sex. Just as long as he doesn't try to make you, stick with it as long as he stops when you say no.
I think if just let them be, it will work out better. Its not what you want to hear, but you are gonna focus on one person, and waste your time, when you could meet someone better if you gave them a chance. They may never break up, and do you really want to be responsible for that. Plus he may just be an infatuation. Just date someone else, he may look at you in a different light