We're currently expecting a baby in early April and our church has generously offered to throw us a baby shower. We're very thrilled at the idea of our church family, friends and our blood family gathering together to celebrate our first born daughter.

The pastor's wife had asked me to compose a list of guests along with their addresses so she could mail out the invitations. I composed the list of only close friends and immediate family. The only issue is who should be invited. I've listed my aunts but I'm unsure as to whether to list my uncles or not. What about my uncles who have wives? Do I just invite his wife or the both? If my uncle is single is it really proper to invite him? I don't want anyone feeling left out or hurt. At the same time I'm honestly not sure who is aware of the upcoming arrival and who is not as our family is quite large and communication isn't always often. So what should I do?