I am 7 1/2 months pregnant and was sitting at home doing some serious thinkin after my boyfriend doubted that this was his baby because around the time i got pregnant we had broken up because he hit me (knocked me to the floor..knot on forehead)...while we were apart (broken up) i did have sex with another guy (the 6th of august only once)... but two days later me and my boyfriend started messing around again and we had sex almost everyday after that...i found out i was pregnant a month later and the doctor said i conceived on the 15th of august (one of the days me and my boyfriend had sex)...now before you ask me and the other guy were just friends (grew up together)...he's in the navy and was home for a few weeks and me being drunk and thinkin out of anger had sex with him and didnt use protection...the reason my boyfriend hit me in the first place was because he didnt want me and the other guy hanging around eachother and he hit me when i told him that i went to the mall with the other guy...at the time everything was innocent and i felt like if my boyfriend can have a female friend then whats so wrong with me having one???...but to make a long story short i know what i did was wrong even though i did it out of anger with my boyfriend and sometimes i still question whether i should even be with him after these two years because he still hasnt moved out of the house with his ex-girlfriend...
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Funny, im kinda going through the same thing....
Most likely it is your boyfriend who is the father because the probability of getting pregnant off of one sex session compared to nine(or how ever many times you had sex after the other guy) is very small.
The only other thing is that if you havent heard of the RHoGam shot, you need to look it up, that has to do with you and your baby's bloodtype, and if the babies is a certain bloodtype your body will try to attack and kill it. Your babies bloodtype depends on the father. So if these two guys have different bloodtypes, it has the posibility to be fatal. This is something that needs to be discussed with your doctor because he is the only one that can test for it or give you the shot. And you NEED to find out ASAP because your suppose to get the shot, if needed, around 28 weeks gestastion.
On a personal note, there is NOTHING wrong with having male friends if your a girl and vice versa, its when they're more than friends and you have made a commitment to sumone else, thats when its wrong. Also NEVER let a guy hit you (and fight back is he does, it usually stops it, b/c its just a form of bullying) no matter the subject, I went through that and realized, after the fact, I shouldve let him go a long time before I did, I wouldve been much happier and been further in life. However, i wouldnt be who i am today if i didnt go through it.
Hope this helps!