A sister who has no respect for you?
My oldest sister and I have never exactly seen eye to eye, but I found out on Thanksgiving how she really feels about me, she hasn't been there for me at all these past few months when I have gone through some terrible times, and well she won't talk to me about why she said what she said. We kind of got in a huge argument about it too. I really just wan to cut her from my life, as she thinks of me as the lowest of the low, and I hate being criticized by her non-stop when I do see her. I already have enough of a crazy and "drama" filled life without her. My mom and other sister think am I am being ridiculous, but I can't stand it. Am I being reasonable by not wanting to do anything that involves her anymore??
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Wow, I completely understand what you are going through. My sister and I don't get along either, she is my only sibling and as much as I wish I was close to my big sis we aren't she has done horrible things to me, several times. It's the old fool me once, fool me twice saying. At some point you have to stop arguing. It's getting you both nowhere. If you have to end it, then do so. Maybe by not talking to her for a while will make her open her eyes. I know how hard it is.
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Don't life is to short to deal with people who put you down to make themselves feel better I think If she doesn't pay your bills you don't NEED her it might hurt for a little while but you wnt have that stress on you or in your life. I was in the same situation with my sister and I haven't spoken to her in years and i don't feel the need to because like you i have a lot of other things to deal with and it was her fault anyway you didn't do anything wrong . HOPE IT HELPS
well, keep in mind that she is your sister, and eventually you would miss her. but i completely understand where you are coming from. my oldest sister has not spoken to me in over a year, and i doubt she ever will. and you know what? one day she's going to wish she could get all these years back. we are family for God's sake. just try to work out your differences, and if you cannot come to a solution, then keep conversation to a minimal, but dont cut her out of your life. trust me, it's a lot of drama.
I think you are okay for not wanting to deal with your sister. If you guys can not try to work things out then it is best to not deal with her. That does not mean that you have to be rude when ever you do see her but you can just keep to yourself. If things begin to heat up then you need to separate yourself from her. Your mom just does not want to see her girls fighting and she wish you too could just get along. Its a mom thing.
HONEY,,SOUNDS LIKE YOU NEED A LONG VACATION AWAY FROM HER,,,IF I WERE YOU I WOULD STAND BY HOW YOU REALLY FEEL,,,AND TRY NOT TO B THERE WERE SHE IS,,N JUST MAYB IN TIME SHE WILL,,START TO REALLY MISSING YOU,,AND GROW UP,,AND SAY SHES SORRY,,,SOMETIMES IT TAKES,,,OTHERS TO LONGER TO GROW UP,,,,,,PEACE
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