Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost a month. This has been going great, i recently told her i loved her and she said she had had bad experiences with saying that to early, so she didnt say it back. She has told me about the boys in the past she has gone out with and they do sound like dirt bags, so this didnt bother me terribly (even though i would have liked her to say it), she can take her time. But recently i keep thinking about her cheating on me because she likes to go to the clubs sometimes and we all know how that scene is, im just paranoid she is going to end up hooking up with one of the guys there. And im not saying i dont party either, i just dont go to clubs and stuff. She does not seem like the cheating type AT ALL. We are both 18.
We both go to the same college and we live 45min apart, and on this christmas break ive gone to see her 3 times.
I just think im extremely paranoid for no reason, any moral support out there
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Ok first off, you are NOT being paranoid. It is absolutely normal to worry about your partner, well boyfriend/girlfriend. (Partner serves more to marriage haha). Anyway, if she seems like the cheating type then I say you're wasting your time. She didn't respond to your 'I love you' because of "previous bad experiences" really? I think she's lying to you. If you really "love" her, then talk to her. Be like oh I want to spend time with you instead of running off to the clubs. I have never been in a relationship and I am 18. I just read alot and stuff about psychology... Hope I was enough help. Happy new year!
As a general rule, do not think a girl is yours until after like 6 months or so.
Yes you are paranoid and needy and insecure. If I were you I would relax or else you will turn into one of those dirtbags she fears.
See most girls hold out on letting their feelings go, because they think guys will say anything to score. It is a test. And most guys will fall into this trap and come off as ******* even though they don't mean to.
DON'T LET HER SEE HOW THIS GETS TO YOU. The more supportive and cool and chill you are the more she will like you and respect you..after a year or so she will be the one checking up on you.
Have patience my friend.
Trust her unless she gives you a reason not to. Obviously she wants to be sure of her love for you before she says it back, there's nothing wrong with that. I guess people get worried from time to time that their partners will find someone else, but those that are truly right for us won't do the wrong thing. I go out to catch up with my best friend, we are both committed to people and we get annoyed when guys interrupt our catch up time! We are out to spend time with each other, not to find a guy. Besides that, drunk, annoying guys have no appeal to me!