Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost a month. This has been going great, i recently told her i loved her and she said she had had bad experiences with saying that to early, so she didnt say it back. She has told me about the boys in the past she has gone out with and they do sound like dirt bags, so this didnt bother me terribly (even though i would have liked her to say it), she can take her time. But recently i keep thinking about her cheating on me because she likes to go to the clubs sometimes and we all know how that scene is, im just paranoid she is going to end up hooking up with one of the guys there. And im not saying i dont party either, i just dont go to clubs and stuff. She does not seem like the cheating type AT ALL. We are both 18.
We both go to the same college and we live 45min apart, and on this christmas break ive gone to see her 3 times.
I just think im extremely paranoid for no reason, any moral support out there
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If she likes to dance and you refuse to go to clubs with her, it's not fair to expect her to stay home.
Going out for a month is not exactly a long engagement.
Don't assume she goes to a club to cheat. There was a question on YA a few weeks ago from a girl who went to a club with her sister and a friend TO DANCE, and she was worried about whether it would upset her boyfriend. Who... would not go with her.
Is your girlfriend on YA, by any chance?
Think about going with her. If you would like her to do things YOU enjoy, meet her halfway, do what she likes. And if you're there with her, she's not likely to meet anyone else.
calm downnn. she's just probably a bit paranoid herself from bad experiences. girls need their space too. just don't be a dirtbag yourself.
Hm I don't date myself but I am sure if she is strict on you not cheating, then I suspect that she will not cheat back on you. As on saying "I love you" it may be just the fact that the dudes who treated her like crap may have said that then wrecked her feelings. If things are going great as you say they are, then you've got nothing to worry about. It just may take her time.
Good luck bro.
since u are not engaged to be married and and short term relationship, u haven't any thing to say on what she does unless the two of you make a pack that each will only date the other. love is a test of time of respect and caring. your girl friend was right in not saying i love u
you're fuccked dude. sorry.