I tell my girlfriend from time to time that she is beautiful or pretty. Many times though she seems like she wants me to compliment her on her appearance and usually asks me about her hair. It appears as though she is conceited… always wanting me to compliment her on her appearance as though it was very important to her. What’s up with that?
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In my experience, women need reassurance. Just let her know that no matter how she thinks she looks, she's beautiful in your eyes.
Well stop complimenting her conceited a.s.s. LOL
She loves the attention of a man saying, "wow you look gorgeous, you have the best body in the world, wow you have beutiful skin, wow you have perfect teeth, wow you are the perfect 10 blah blah blah" LOL
But seriously, its ok to boost her ego, women love to hear that (I do) makes you feel good coming from a guy. But what I don't understand is why does she keep asking you to say it? kinda weird. Should come natural from you. Like if you see her with a new hairstyle its okay to say, "looking nice there" but wanting it every second? hmmm thats not even conceited anymore, its known as low self-esteem. She needs a guy to keep saying she's hot in order to feel good about herself. talk to her & find out whats hurting her...Good luck & keep giving her a big head ;P
Most likely she is insecure and not conceited. Girls like to hear how beautiful they are to be feel validated. Society places so much pressure on a girl to look good, that she just wants to make sure she is doing well. Also, she obviously cares about your opinion since she is with you, so she just wants to make sure that you STILL see her in that way.
Maybe she asks you because you do not tell her enough? You say that you tell her from time to time, but maybe tell her more often, like every day ;-)
also, it matters the way you say it. say it like you mean it. say it like your the luckiest guy in the world to be with her. touch her because you just cant keep your hands off of her. tell her specific things that you find attractive about her: ie. soft skin, pretty feet...things that people do not always notice.
This will go along way in helping her self esteem if she is insecure and also in her not asking you to compliment her.
good luck!
It makes us feel good to be complimented. She makes herself look good for you and wants to make sure you notice. It could be the opposite of conceit too. Insecurity, and if you are looking at her you are not looking anywhere else. Talk to her tell her you find her beautiful and list attributes that are not physical you like about her. That should make her feel better about your relationship and cut down on the fishing for compliments. :)
When women are younger they ask that question ,and we have to answer them.. as they get older the question becomes "do these jeans make my butt look big?" (of course with my girlfriend I tell her" it ain't the jeans"), but none the less they like to be complimented alot , (maybe it makes them feel better about themselves due to the guilt trip of bitching at us all day long) Who Knows
Just wait till she starts packing on a few pounds and she starts asking "does this dress makes me look fat?" questions!
My advice? Even if her hair is on fire, tell her it looks good. Same thing goes with the fat dress.
Maybe she has low self esteem & is looking to you for confidence that she is attractive.
Maybe she's really insecure and wants your approval?
she a stupid snake slap her and tell her its from me