Omg what is wrong with me?!? I've liked this boy for 3 years now but last school year I hadn't seen him for a while. I started crushing on this boy that went to my school, and he asked me out (one week after his previous gf broke up with him, might I add). Stupid me said yes, and I was happy, but only for about a month. Because then summer came and he went out of state and by that time I had realized he wasn't that great. But I tried to stay liking him but soon enough, I started to see my guy I had liked for 3 years. And I'm nearly positive he likes me. A LOT. And since I've known him for over 5 years, I really know him, and he's great, nice, funny, cute, and just a wonderful guy. But my bf still likes me alot, (I like him no more) and when his last gf broke up with him, he started trash-talking about her. I still want to be friends but I'm not sure he'll want to. I would like to break up with him but I can't do it in person anytime soon, and I want it to be over. On top of that I found out he just bought me a gift which makes me feel guilty, but I also found out he had to choose between me and another girl to ask out, and he choose me, but I don't think I should have to be choosen over someone else. And I'm gonna be going to the fair with my crush and my friends soon and I really think somethings going to happen between us there. Help me please! What should I do!?! And I just realized something; I liked him[my current bf], while I hadn't seen the other guy [my real crush], and though I liked my bf, the whole time deep down inside of me, I loved my crush. And I still do.
Update:Oh and why I'll feel guilty about breaking up with him is because I'm pretty sure he'll be crushed.
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Fallow your heart.. Do what you want and what you feel is right.. No matter what everyone else says about you..
Don't worry about him trash talking about you... Just sit down and tell him that you just want to be friends.. And that you don't feel like your relationship is going anywhere. And that you don't like him that way.
But, as far as the whole "really crush" thing goes don't lay all of your cards down, till you know there is a table to lay them on...
Meaning, don't like start making plans or getting overly happy when you see him or when he touches you or anything.... Cuz you may end up having your heart broken.. And make sure that if this is all just lust that you don't get hurt and you don't hurt others either...
But also have hope!
And live for today and not marrow.. Regret nothing...
Just break up with him. Don't stay with him just because you're afraid of what he'll say about you after. Also, even though you might feel guilty, he doesn't really want to be with a girl that's not into him anyway.
Well basically if you don't want to date your BF anymore, then just break up with him. In this situation, everything is gonna look pretty dam ugly so you're just gonna have to plow through it. Nothing else you can do unless you just want to wait things out which can be a while.
Just be careful. Relationships can destroy friendships. It's not the person as much as it is that awkward feeling you get when you see each other and can't talk about your friendship without that once-had relationship coming up in the back of your mind.
I say stay close friends with him.
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YOU ARE VERY CONFUSED. ITZ NOT FAIR TO HAVE EITHER ONE OF THOSE GUYS FEELING DUMB. DON'T FEEL LIKE U OWE HIM SOMETHING JUST BECAUSE HE BOUGHT YOU A GIFT. WHO CARES IF HE TRASH TALKS YOU, YOU KNOW HE WASN'T SAYING ALL THAT WHEN YALL WERE GOING OUT AND IF THIS GUY REALLY LIKES YOU THEN HE WILL RESPECT YOU AND YOUR DECSION TO BREAK UP. AND AS FOR YOUR CRUSH WHY DID IT TAKE SO LONG FOR HIM TO REALIZE HE LIKES U TO??? JUST REMEMBER DON'T LOSE THE ONE YOU LOVE OVER THE ONE YOU LIKE BECAUSE THE ONE YOU LIKE WILL LEAVE YOU FOR THE ONE THEY LOVE. REMEBER KARMA IS A PAIN. WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. JUST WHATEVER DECISION YOU MAKE...MAKE A WELL THOUGHT OUT ONE. THIS DECISION COULD CHANGE ALOT OF THINGS FOR YOU IN A NEGATIVE AND POSITIVE WAY. IM NOT HERE TO TELL U WAT TO DO BUT TO SIMPLY GIVE YOU ADVICE OR REASONING BECAUSE ITZ YOUR LIFE AND YOUR DECISIONS. IM NOT GONNA TELL YOU WHAT TO DO BECAUSE YOU HAVE TO MAKE YOUR OWN DECISION BECAUSE ITZ GOIN TO AFFECT YOU NOT ME.