I'm new since like months now and still like don't really have any friends. I have some but they're like guys and still I don't really talk to them much. I dress sorta popular but like people start **** with all the time on myspace and say ur annoying n weird because you NEVER talk and always alone. I cant take it ! I want popularity and at least people to TALK to in the hallways. its madd frustrating when nobody knows you and hates youuu. What do I do? Do i talk to popular girls? because i dont know if im cool like them. and dont tell me to join sports or clubs because its too late
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well I was like you before I had noone to talk to and I was such a wallflower back then. But when I was in grade 6 it started to change . And all I did was talk to the popular people in my class we got closer then I met the popular people In our batch. Understand that they have feelings too.the are very nice when you guys get closer. Sometimes they are the most fun people to be with. Join a club or varsity youll get to know more people there. Popular people don't really try to be popular they are popular because they are always happy and fun to be with. Believe me I've been in the in crowd for almost a year. Being popular has advantages and disadvantages. The good stuff is that youll be known and people look up to to you. And your
circle of friends will keep growing and growing .bad stuff is that people always expect you to be perfect. And well its actually natural that unpopular people hates the popular people. But always consider they have feelings to and try to accept it. Hope this helps. And soon enough maybe youll have a boyfriend. This is according to my experience so do the stuff what you think is right for you .goodluck!!!
Personally i find myself struggling thinking if i was more popular than i am now, then i would have a better social life, but truly i think having the right friedns is better. Being popular gets you in so many bad positions, like drinking, sex, ect. If i were you i would keep your eyes open for some good girls that could be good for you, and be there. It takes time to find friends, but be yourself, and dont do things that you would regret!
Damn why everyone wants to be a popular :@.Don't try to be a popular coz it's nothing.Before I wanted to be a popular but now noooo.I was in the same position but I just became myself and now everything is different.I have a lot of friends and what's the truth now the popular girls always look me coz now they want to be like me ;)
hope I helped.Good luck :D
Look if you dress the way you want to dress and talk to people because you WANT to talk and not because you want to gain something (like a seat at lunch or popularity) people like people who are themselves, I know it sounds like a stupid line but its completly true. Just stick up for yourself and don't start stuff because if you start stuff you'll be doing what the bullies want.
find out who are the hottest girls and the most popular ....and start wearing the clothes that they were the shoes find out where they chill at and start by finding one of them and becoming friends with them, once you become popular you ... will figure out form there where you belong ! in that crowd ,,,, also i joined he cheerleading team thats how i became popluar plus i would juts go up to people and start talking to them
i think you want to be more social with them. start a conversation with them and try to get them to hang w/ you. but i think you should find another lonely person in school and make friends with them. you don't need to be popular in order to have friends. at the begging of my school year alot of moved and this girl in my PE class was alone so when she recognized me she came up to me and we just started talking and we met other friends that ave classes with us and have lunch with us and now we have a group of our own! you should find some body to get along with and find more friends that get along w/ them and eventually they'll get along w/ you and vice versa! ;)
It's because she is confident about herself and is the bravest one to actually do the things she does. because of the sarcastic jokes and drama, it makes her entertaining and therefore people like to be entertained by her.
its not posible 4 u to b popular ... we dont like u