how do you deal...........????
when one of your good friends familys treat your friend like ****? they are mean to her and say some really messed up stuff to her, and she crys all the time but i dont knwo what to say to her besides "thats messed up" i feel so ba for her but its like there is nothing i can really say or do that makes her feel any better, her family makes her feel unwanted all the time, and i get mad at them cuz its her brother her sister and her mom that are doing it to her....... and words of advise i can say to make her feel better or at least let her know that people do care about her like me and all of our friends? i dont think she see it..........help please
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To be a real friend you have to be totally honest. I would explain that I know that I am on the outside looking in but it's not right how they are treating her. Tell her not to let them see her cry (that's a sign of low self- esteem which may be caused by them), but to brush them haters off and not to give them that satisfaction. But just continue to show her support and give her some words of wisdom- maybe she would get tired of them and realize that they are a bunch of haters.
let her know that u r their 4 her and even though ppl treat her like crap u will always be there 4 her offer to take her shopping or sleep over at your house because it seems like she is an outkast and i think u need to make her feel not like an outkast!!!!!:)
i would recommend you and your friends going out more often and inviting her just to keep her away from her family. i would also say something positive to her whenever they tried to make her feel bad