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Maybe you should forget about the "rubbing" and advance tot he "stroking." When your penis is erect, place your hand around your penis and gentlly move your hand up and down (if you are lying down) or back and forth if you are standing. Do this while thinking sexy erotic thoughts. Think about making love to that beautiful young lady you saw the other day. Think about undressing her, one item at a time. Think about her holding and stroking your penis. Let your mind run free. Enjoy and relax. You will find your excitement level will increase and so will the speed at which your hand operates. You will soon start to come toward a climax - ejaculation. Keep going and when you ejaculate you will have sucessfully masturbated and you will never want to stop once you get started. Enjoy. It is good clean healthy enjoyment. I average about ten - twelve times a week. Not twice every day but frequently twice a day. I don't got no zits! There is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbation! It is a perfectly normal healthy thing done by 98% of men (the other two percent are liars.)

You can be assured that:

- your penis will not get shorter;

- you will not grow hair on your palms;

- you will not go bald;

- you will not go to hell (at least because of masturbating);

- you will not lose your mind;

- you will not become sterile;

- your penis will not fall off;

- your testicles will not decrease in size;

- your chance of being struck by lightning is not increase.

But you will be:

- your penis will likely become stronger;

- more relaxed;

- smiling most of the time;

- a perfectly normal man;

- and you will still produce enough eggs in your sperm.

So keep IT up and continue to enjoy.

There is no real magic it is just study and practice and it really depends on what you want to master,cycling for example doesn't take very long to master,swimming doesn't take too long either but,if it is something like engineering it could take many years.Good luck with whatever it is you want to master.I can't imagine what the others are talking about.

a good technique is getting a condom or if u dont have one a small bag e.g food bag u put sandwiches in, putting a lube in it e.g. a little bit of water

1) put ur penis in the bag

2) kneel down on the side of your bed

3) lift up your mattres

4) insert all of your penis into the gap between the bed and mattres

5) move your hips back and forth as if the bed was a person and the hole where your penis is, is a vagina

make sure that you hav a good amount of lube and once the mattres is ontop of your penis dont touch it its not that heavy

and if u shot sperm dont worry you have a bag or condom there hope you enjoy tell me if you treid it

Give your body a break! You are try to force it to do something to is not ready to do or it is too stress to managed.

The fact that you are on line suggest that you are concerned - later you will have performance issues. Relax.

One morning or evening, when you are totally chilled and with nothing much on your mind, you will do exactly what you have been try now...and bang! The secret is to relax!

You say in your other question that you are 14 (yes I read it). At this point you should already know how to masturbate. As for not ejaculating; it could be that you are a late bloomer and are not able to ejaculate yet. Keep practicing and give yourself some time. You will learn.

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um.. there nothing much to it. i ***ed when i was 12. You have to make your penis erect , then you rub it. how do you rub it? i find that up and down works best. after a while increase the speed, and tighten your grip. that should work. if not email me, i'll see what i can do

i relish Lao Tzu. i think he in simple terms could desire to have extremely mastered himself. i think of self mastery is a rarity and that i've got no longer achieved this. it incredibly is a lofty purpose to shoot for and that i wish to a minimum of sometime attain it in the previous I die.

how young are you?

maybe your not ready to master that!

but when ever your alone and have an erection then you can try to master that but do it with an erection but be gentle until you get used to it, use cream if you like, it will give it a different feeling.

once you mater that, then you can get back to us and ask us what different techniques to use.

i find when i want to master, i have to be in the mood, a magazine of video often helps too!!

I can only speak for the girls...gimme the lube...The guy I'm w/ doesn't lube up!! Happy Humping!!!!