get my mom to let me go more places? ive been on summer break for a moth now. and i have not did anything fun.my mom thinks since my cousins ages,14,17,18 got pregnant i am. but she should no me better by now. i use 2 go places wiht my boyfriend and never got pregnant but now i cant go nowhere because of my cousins? i have tried to talk to her and everything. people have said to let me go out and have fun.there was even a time when my neice sister skipped school and i was in trouble because my neice sister skipped school.its not my fault she did so then my started not letting me go nowhere no more not even with my dad or brothres. what d i do ? im getting tired of sitting and not doing anything
Update:i know she is just being a parent but this stuff she is doing is just to much for me. i need to be able to have a little fun.
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make her having trust in u!!!!
talk to your aunt. tell her your cousins' pregnancies are driving your mom insane and maybe she could talk to her? also, you should tell your mom that you feel as if your trust between her is completely broken due to the fact that you are telling her the truth and she will not believe you so much to the extent that she is keeping you inside. tell her that if she is so worried about you being pregnant that you are willing to take a pregnancy test to prove her wrong.
what ur mom does is correct. ur cousin's parents also should have trusted them before. But now, they are pregnant. So, the same fear ur mom have on u. Its not wrong. Its a precaution.
repeat everything you said here to her if she won't listen tape a note that says it on her bathroom mirror and another on her car windsheild and anothe ron her purse. she will realize you really want her to understand this and will read it with an open mind. hope that helps.
Just tell her you aren't at all like your cousin's and will not do something as stupid and irresponsible like that. Then tell her she can set a curfiew and where and when you can go and who you can go with.
Good luck!
go out with ur friends 1st. then maybe go on a double date w/ ur mom & dad so they can trust ur intimacy. tell her that u dont idolize ur cuzins, its the other way.