Okay, so I'm fairly sure I'm in love with this guy...but theres a couple things wrong with that fact. I'm 15 and he's 22, and he's in a completely different state, and we've never officially met. And before you say I'm crazy...I know. It's just...something about him...Okay, well, he's a photographer, but he's not very famous, some people know of him, but not a lot..so hes not famous, per say, but alot of people like him..including girls. But see, most of the girls like him because he's hot, and i admit, he is hot, but thats not why i like him. I absolutely LOVE his personality. So much. Just the things he says randomly on twitter or fb..and how hes not afraid to admit certain things...I just love him. I'm a very sane person, i dont normally act like this, and this is why i'm asking. I dont know what to do. I plan on moving to florida with a couple friends after highschool, but that would be in around 2 more years, and he could be taken by then. (He's single atm, and has been for a while.) At first i just really liked his artwork...then i started to pay attention to his posts, and recently he added this really lenghty post on facebook. He's been having a lot of financial problems lately and he ways crying and asking people that if they really like his artwork, that if they could, they should buy a print. The prints were pretty cheap, only 15, and so i ended up buying one and putting on twitter that i did buy one. He got really really excited and thanked me over a thousand times. He seemed truely happy and he was saying how bad he felt for me having to beg my parents and just how he honestly appreciated it so much, and just every word he said set my heart racing. After he posted that rant, I couldnt stop worrying over him. Every thirty minutes id check fb and twitter to see if he posted anything. Im constantly checking and its getting a little obsessive. We havent really had an actualy full conversation, but i still love him. Im really not being dramatic guys...I really dont know whats wrong with me. I know its not normal and that half of you will tell me to just move on..Well, I don't know if i can. I really truely want to be with him, but i have no guts whatsoever to tell him how i feel...I just dont know what to do. Im afraid if i tried to start a conversation with him he'd never reply,. considering its only online. But, if i do confess to him..what if he thinks im crazy and never talks to me again? Im so ******* worried i dont know what to do...DX I just wish i could figure this **** out. Guys. Please, Im begging...can you give me a little insight? I really am lost...how do i do this? Make him notice me...or possibly fall in love with me...and wait until i move to florida for me or something..I dont know what to do...just tell me what you think, i guess.
Thanks so much for caring. <3 I appreciate it. And if possible, can you guys try to reply ASAP. I really need help...T_T
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I know that at the moment you are already freaking out so it's pointless for me to say not to. But before you go off the deep end, if you haven't already, you need to think about a few things. Like you said, you haven't met him in person or even talked to him in a full length conversation. People aren't always what they seem to be on the internet in person. He might not want to be in a relationship; that's another thing that you have to consider. Also, you are jail bait to him. It is illegal for you two to be together and he may not want to even risk that possibility. Now, he could wait for you to become legal, but he might not want to. I know that it is probably useless for me to tell you that this is some wild crazy hormonal crush, because you might not want to admit it but your hormones are still running rampant at 15/16 years old, and you may change your mind about him later....but I am going to mention it anyways and say just think about that as well and try to keep it in mind. Telling him that you are in love with him without even meeting or talking to him will most likely make him think you are some crazy stalker because that is kind of what it sounds like, sorry if that offends you but it really does. There are so many things in this situation that I think you should think about before you jump off into crazy depression because you think you can never be with this guy. You should at least try to talk to him more and get to know him better rather than assessing his character only by his posts and blogs. The last thing I have to say is that if you don't have the guts to tell him that you like him and see where his stance is on the whole bit of waiting to be with you until you are legal - it's okay there are tons of shy people all over the world, I was one myself at one point in time too - then you really will never know how he feels about you since he doesn't even know that you like him. But again, if you get the courage to tell him how you feel, I would strongly suggest getting to know him in a better way than just reading his posts and blogs and seeing if he would wait until you are of legal age.
Ok. I think he does really like you. Tell him how you REALLY feel deep down inside. Don't be nervous. Good luck hun, God bless! :)