I'm in my teen years, and I have grown up in a very wealthy family. I have always had it easy, and had a great childhood. My parents divorced, and they had constant fighting, but besides that it was all ok. Just recently I found out that my Dad does cocaine. This crushed me. I have always been daddy's little girl. He has always provided for me and we are really close. We always take father-daughter trips, and I could never have even thought this. I still love my Dad, but how could he do this to his family? This could ruin his life. He could lose his business that he has worked so hard for. He doesn't know I know.. and I don't know if I want him to know. I don't think I can ever view him the same way. Do any of you know a loved one who has drug problems? Please, if you have anything that might help.. please share.
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yes my parents r divorsed also about a year ago i found out my dad did drugs i was crushed n even worse every body in my family new =( i couldnt believe what had happend he even lied to me that he dint smoke after i saw ashes n a cigeret. but i was mad at him for a while but its the past n water under the bridge n its his choice that hes doing it ....let him get lung cancer lol jk... tell him that you know n also tell him how you feel abou it =) hope i helped
You should probably talk to him about it, but be careful in doing so. You might crush his self esteem. Say things along the lines of "Daddy, I love you and you have always been there for me, why do you need to do drugs." If you find out he's on depression (which is a very likely possibility btw) Suggest he go to a psychologist. Don't treat your dad any differently then you did before, or even look at him differently, and pray for the best. Good look my friend :)
If i were you i would call a relative to help. If he has a drug problem he needs rehab!!! You can tell him you know and say that your worried and he needs help!! You cant keep letting take drugs they are very dangerous!! He needs his famillies support. You need back up! You cant help your dad by yourself. If it gets to the point were he is a non stop user and you start to get scared and worried and feel like you cant cope i would call the police even if he loses his job and stuff at least he will be better!! If you have brothers or sisters get their help. It is not just dangerous for him but you as well if you have younger brothers or sisters its dangerous for them too!! Im not an expert but I know a bit about it. Good Luck! xxxx
My uncle is an alcoholic and a drug addict he's gone to rehab a number of times but always ended up relapsing. He use to do really hard core drugs and was arrested several times. He's now been sober for two years and the hole family's trying to support him in his recovery, which i know has been very hard on him. I understand how you feel my cousin (the drug addict uncles son) has been totally devastated by watching his dad struggle day to day with his addictions and it just breaks my heart. I wish the best for you and hope your dad recovers. Good luck.
Where is Jacobs mom? Is there any viable approach for her to aid together with her little one? If no longer then I feel you must present to aid with the little one , however handiest with a written contract that you're doing so at the same time Garrett is in Rehab. & if he fails to conform the little one can be became over to foster care. & Then the one approach Garrett gets his son again is to whole Rehab, & end up he's a are compatible father. I realize you're keen on your cousin , so that you must provide him this one possibility to get his self straightened out. If it really works & he's honest, you'll have helped preserve his son with household at the same time he used to be away. But if he does not cross, or whole rehab, it isn't your accountability at that factor to elevate & maintain his little one. as you mentioned you have got your palms complete correct now. The alternative is rather yours, however in case you be given, be definite to get a written contract. as to the phrases of your taking at the "Temporary Responsibility " of his son,*
I would go see a professional therapist to discuss this issue and what to do.Make sure they specialize in these type of situations! This has always helped me and they always give you the healthiest way for you to take on the issue!!!! Please do this. You won't regret it!!!!
you should tell him that its wrong and illegal to do such drugs
and make him aware that he could lose his job and his family