I've been talking to this girl since the beginning of the school year.I meet her when she was sad cause some boy played her,she told me she wasnt ready for a realtionship and even if she was she only messes around with other girls not date them and her Dad and Mom would never apporve.
But then we started to like each other more and more and she told me she doesn't care bout her dad or her past and we can go out..So we started to go out about 2 weeks ago.I really like her but she is scared to give me a kiss goodbye when I walk her home cause her Dad might be out somewhere looking,and she is scared to kiss me in school cause a teacher might call her house and she isn't ever aloud out of her house.
-What should I do wait it out to see if things get better?
Or
-Is this not going to go anywhere and just give up?
Update:okay ummm..I am in all A.P classes so shutup! k.thanx
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I think you should pay more attention in school and learn the proper use of the word aloud means with the speaking voice. such as you read the book aloud. You should have used the word allowed as in allowable and you also misspelled approve. So forget the girl and pay more attention in school .
It sounds like you're in high school at the latest. At this point in your life I would consider it more important to have a meaningful physically-restrained relationship rather than give up a girl you care about just because she is too young to take the risks involved with being caught. It sounds like she still does stuff when you're not at her house or school, so it seems like you've still got some things to do.
I know it's hard to believe but high school is a very small part of your life and when you guys are 18 and on your own you can do whatever you want.
Do keep in mind that it is a very judgmental world and you may still face discrimination for public displays of affection just because you're with a woman. But you can find gay-friendly people to hang out with and there are plenty of areas where you will be accepted.
Don't rush into adulthood. You'll look back when you're older and wish you'd taken the time to enjoy the simpler times when you were a kid.
Best wishes.
Well things may not change on there own.
but you can help her see that it'll be ok and that yall can kiss when you are out and when you take her home just assure her it'll be fine even if he does see. make up something if he does. good luck. but seriously do what you feel is right not her parents or anyone else but you and her.
if you really love her, stay with her. sometimes you just gotta tough it out through hard times. if your not sure, you may want to just be friends for awhile until your really sure. if things are meant to be i'm sure you'll find a way.
Good luck! I hope things turn out okay.
Sadly, you may have to wait to openly act on your feelings until you leave home for college.
Let her be, her dad is probably going to kill u :P
i know it sounds cliche, but if you truly love her, if will wait, and stick with her, no matter what
Well it's obvious your a girl and you should move along or your going to have hell to pay........scoot scoot
mmmmm school restrooms?!
give up let it go.