Okay so I had a dance thing and my costume was sleevless. I'm fourteen but my mom still wouldnt let me shave so I was extra worried about wearing the costume infront of everyone.
This was my previous question:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoLJR...
I took some advice of others and wore something to cover it up and it worked perfectly! But then when I went to the dancing place, my instructor told me that I wasnt allowed to wear it :( So apparently, I had no choice but TO TAKE IT OFF. ( total nightmare! )
When I went to the stage everyone was staring at my hairy armpits! :'( And what's worse was my crush looked like he was weirded/frieked out !!!
I'm soooo embarassed! He must think im a weirdo for not shaving! And it's all my mom's fault! She even called my armpits "Cute" after the dance!!! WHO CALLS ARMPITS CUTE?!?
So how do I go out without being teased at or bullied? It already happened a few time. Even this little kid calls me " Hairy " or " Armpit Girl " :(( PLEASE HELP!
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Lool gross .what kind of advice you want. Just shave and dont tell her
Please convince your mom that its time to shave and it really is. Don't just hide around the corner. Just remember that you are a human being and you have to face some teasing. This you just can't ignore. For someday people will tease you and after some time they will forget about this incident. That's how the people are. You need to accept it and be confident that no matter what you are gonna be totally fine. Hope that helps :)
Ugh Your Moms The Worst !! Lol sorry... Just shave them! I think your mom will understand since u got embarrassed.. But try your best to ignore those bullies :)
Good Luck!
Always wear something half sleeved or long sleeved, or wear a shrug or cardigan. You can also bleach the hair instead of shaving, the product is called Jolen bleaching creme. Get it at walgreens or something :) or you can shave secretly without your mom finding out.
Wow, first off to say i am so sorry that your mom embarrassed you like that. IT sounds like to me, that she does not want her little girl to grow up. My advice would be to go to a friends house and shave, do not tell your mother . If she some how finds out you need to sit down and talk with her and tell her how embarrassed you felt etc. Keep your chin up.
How old are you? All girls get to an age when they start to shave, and it seems like she doesn't want to let you grow up. You need to tell your mother what the problem is. Let her know how you really feel, that it's embarrassing. Tell her the problem isn't that people are laughing at you, but that you feel uncomfortable and you shouldn't have to feel that way.
First go and have a shave. This would increase ur confidence level. Dont take ur mom's word in this matter. If u do so ur going to suffer.
Your mom must be a hippie or some crazy ****... why in the hell would she not want you to shave. Shave your pits, show your pits, make people believe they were seeing things.