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My question is where the heck are the parents?

I raised 2 girls. They are now 18 and 24. The 24 year old dressed very conservatively because that is just the way she is. Very much like her aunt.

The 18 year old started wearing butt showing shorts when she was 8. I caught her scissoring her appropiate shorts.

From that point on, I kept her close to my bossom. She grew fast. By the time she was 13, she stood 5/9. At 16 nearing 5/11. At 18, a gorgeous 6 feet.

I blame the parents. Period. My daughter was under constant peer pressure from her friends who's parents allowed this kind of dress. In fact, I don't think the parent (s) even knew what their daughters were wearing. Hand out the money and/or the charge card, drop them at the mall and that is it.

The kids buy their clothes, do their laundry, make their own meals & have no parental (adult) supervision. It was not unusual for one of Ali's friends to knock on my door at 3 am.

Parenting seems to be a matter of making sure your child has all the material garbage the adults can afford, shove it down their throat, twist it in little balls and put it their mouths.

Hopefully, if they do this along with ignoring the child and accepting no responsibility, it will allow them more time to spend on themselves.

Selfish. Self centered. Pathetic.

(Amen, John G.)

I think girls do this so they get attention from everyone. I have seen 12 year old girls wearing what you just described, and posting pictures of them smoking marijuana on Instagram. They feel as if caking on makeup and being rebellious will get people to notice them in a good, positive way, although it does not. They want boy attention, to stand out and be different. Dressing like you just walked out of the club, or provocatively is not the answer.

Well, I am a teen girl, and I dress attractively, but not provocatively. I would say that we dress this way mostly to get attention. As young women, we sometimes become too dependent on attention to make us feel important. For me, sure, I want guys to think I am a hottie. But we need to realize that by making ourselves look slutty, we are attracting the wrong kind of men. You should love the way you look, not focus on other opinions.

I don't think they should limit what a person can or cannot wear by the thread of the cut, unless of course it were to be lewd. And therein lies the rub, as one cannot perfectly distinguish the line between the tasteful and the tacky, the jewel and the jezebel as it were. There are already in place regulations in some districts stipulating that spaghetti strap tops (thin strapped camisole type tops) should be forbidden, which I think is as far as one should go. Anything else more serious and you would be hindering the student's wardrobe significantly, which would be a significant impedance to the time it took me to get ready, obliging me to wake up earlier, and hence cutting into precious REM cycles and sleep time. So don't take away our rights to dress up. It's already hard enough getting up for zero period in middle school. And I hate Mrs. Miller, she's always ragging on me. Please do send regards to my mother. She's on the PTA.

Because they are young and stupid with no sense of accountability or self-esteem due to our pop culture and pathetic parenting. They are also being taught that it is "OK" to dress like a call girl due to women's lib when it should have been about competing intellectually with men, not giving away their most precious commodity, themselves. They need to understand that there is no way they are going to attract a respectable man looking and acting like a haughty prostitute. Taking this mentality into adulthood will prevent them from a happy marriage because they feel their worth lies with their looks and inevitably mental illness will ensue, 1 in 4 women on pshyc-meds these days. Young men are being taught to look at women as objects with their music videos though there are more and more laws governing male instinct and strength, but none governing women's, hence no accountability. Both sexes are being exploited by our society in order to dissolve it, subversive Perestroika has some to America. All would agree that MORALLY how a women dresses should not make her "ask for it" when it comes to rape, it is the rapists fault. Just like mass shootings are not committed by guns, but by a crazy person. Though if I walk down a dark alley with gold chains around my neck I have a higher statistical chance of getting robbed, period. So until someone finds out how to engineer a "new man" that is devoid of criminality and urges use some freaking common sense and get your head out of the clouds. Men, keep it in your pants OK! Lead your families and teach your sons and daughters values. Wake up people, modesty, decency and morality are inseparably connected with happiness.

Answering as a fifteen year old girl here...

Well to begin with I think that alot of the girls just think that growing up is so amazing and they want to act like an adult and get into stufd they shouldn't

And alot of them think that by dressing like a **** they can get all the attention from guys but alot of them think its gross

And why society is letting this happen is because it makes more money and girls were raised seeing models all skkin and bones wearing practically nothing saying look like.me and be like me

I have a very good arguement for this because I am constantly judged by teachers who think I dress bad and im the only one who gets in trouble but I dress just normal

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Often teenagers are very influenced by media and popular culture, much of which promotes sexuality and more promiscuous ways of life. It s not necessarily a need for attention or rebellion, but rather teenagers feeling pressured by society to grow up at a faster rate and promote their sexuality. Everyday we re exposed to women in media in compromising and often risque positions instead of more respectable positions of authority and power. Due to this, teens, who are one of the age groups most exposed to mass media, are conditioned and socialized to believe that this is how they should behave and, therefore, dress. Perhaps we shouldn t blame teens, but instead the society that shaped them.

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It's all about the human nature of wanting to be noticed, or for some people, wanting to fit in with others. It's basically just whats border lined between cool, and slutty. It bugs the crap out of everyone but a lot of us do it anyway!!!! XD

I think girls should be able to dress however the hell they want, be that a burqa, modestly, or provacatively. If that is what they choose to represent to the world, its okay. Teenage years are about self discovery and expression, and chosing how the world views you is part of that. My daughters will forever be allowed to express themselves any way they want.