I like this girl that I met about 5 months ago on facebook and we've only seen each other in person once. I message her literally everyday but I don't have continuous conversations with her as often. Do I seem too desperate? She doesn't seem to mind me talking to her all the time. But I'm afraid that she won't like me the way that I like her if I come off too desperate. What should I do? Should I try to talk to her less? And if so, how less? Once a week? or only when she messages me? Please I need some advise. I'm a guy by the way, and I really want this girl to be my girlfriend.. Created by Edgar. family-relationships-en - singles-dating-en

Do I seem too desperate?

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Do I seem too desperate?

I like this girl that I met about 5 months ago on facebook and we've only seen each other in person once. I message her literally everyday but I don't have continuous conversations with her as often. Do I seem too desperate? She doesn't seem to mind me talking to her all the time. But I'm afraid that she won't like me the way that I like her if I come off too desperate. What should I do? Should I try to talk to her less? And if so, how less? Once a week? or only when she messages me? Please I need some advise. I'm a guy by the way, and I really want this girl to be my girlfriend.

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Anonymous

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Okay!! Time for some hard core reality checks!

From my stand point I'd say that you're coming off a little to social. Don't be a nuisance, but still have a connection with her! Ease off the message button and give her time to response. One message a day without a response is the limit. After a couple of days without a response Lay off for a day or two and try once more. These moments are crucial in a relationship, you don't want her to think that your a psycho by telling her that she's "the most beautiful girl you've ever seen" when she doesn't message back. Just follow my advise and be yourself. Try and get together more often, that way she can't ignore you when she's sitting next to you ;)

Good luck my friend!!

Anonymous

well, if she likes you back then it is probably not that annoying to her. but if you do this: hey. hi. whats up? hey. how was your day. that gets annoying and creepy. boys have done that to me and its a real turn off. though,its different if the girl likes you back. so find out if she likes you. if not, lay off the messages. say hey idk every other week? if so, message her once a day & if she responds normally thats good. if not, i'd stop, your probably getting on her nerves. one guy did this to me and i ended up blocking him.