my boyfriend and i are madly in love. we get along amazingly and a big part of it is that we have this natural chemistry. we can talk for hours and not only is our communication good but our sex life is phenomenal. the thing is, you see that once people get married everything kinda reaches a standstill, does that include the sexual and emotional connection?
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act like u're dating even after you're married. keep each other surprised and entertained~ make each other feel loved as always~~ be romantic and keep the passion alive as much as you want~~
once a family is formed, u kinda have to shift ur focus, but that doesn't mean u can't still be in love and passionate towards ur partner :)
talk about what u want after marriage and how you guys can come about achieving those~~ all about communication ~
Certain aspects of it fade, others grow. After you've been married for a length of time, you will probably find that as far as the emotional and friendship connection.....it grows and becomes deeper. When kids and job pressures and just the little every day things in life start coming up as they do after people get married.....well, then you find yourself not as eager to have sex all the time like you may now. You're tired, he's tired, the kids are sick, Johnny needs new shoes, etc....you see what I mean? It doesn't change your love for one another........I think you just have a different type of love.......a more mature one based on partnership and joint goals, etc. rather than on amazing sex. Don't get me wrong.......the amazing sex can still be there, too. Maybe just not as frequent or in the same way as it is when you're free and single with no major obligations!
Yes! It fades. Hot passion grows cooler. Sex isn't quite as much as an Olympic event as it once was. Get by all of that stuff and hope you've ended up with a kind hearted decent human being.
The infatuation fades; but the emotional connection should, ideally, get stronger. You develop deeper love and appreciation for each other in a long-term relationship - it's not based solely on physical attraction or infatuation.
Not if it true and from the heart. But I will tell you how you can test it. Just put a hold on the sex and ask him to do the same and if there are no harsh words or any cheating on either one of parts then you will know alls well. God Bless in your relationship.
Be Happy&Blessed
Jason
It mostly does fade but then it comes back. You have married moments when you feel like you sort of regret marrying them or even meeting them and then the next day you don't know what you will do without them.
A lot of people tell me they feel the same way. It's usually good to have married friend too. When you have single friends they can make you wish you were single. But I am glad I am married.
The excitement and newness wears off over time, especially when you've seen him sick and throwing up and after a few years of picking up his dirty underwear. That's not to say that the chemistry fades, your relationship itself changes. You develop deeper feelings for each other and get closer, forming a stronger, tighter bond. I may not always feel like ripping my husband's clothes off, but he is my best friend and I can't imagine life without him.
well all I can say is you will have to work to keep everything the same! don't think the neg right away some marriage are the greatest, but most are not because no one wants to working to keep it going! You get this attitude that you will always have him in your life, that you forget he is a person and you need to love him just as much as you did the day you met him!!!!
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It depends on who you are and what changes YOU make as a person with personal growth. It's up to each of us to keep the fires burning. Feed the fire with more wood before the coals go out!