How do you know if it's a date?
So I've been texting this girl for a little less than a month after meeting her at my friends gathering and we hit it off and we were really flirty with each other and I texted her asking if she has seen the possession and she said "no but I really want to!!!" and I asked If she wanted to see it and she said "yes :D" so is it a date? Also another question she asked me if I wanted to go to her dance showcase in may and I said yes and she said "ok :) i will get you tickets when the time comes :)? So what does that mean
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yeppp she wants you lol
by setting a time in the future is shows that she wants you in her future! if you like her then you should go through with it. it looks like she is looking for more of a relationship than a hookup
Technically a "date" is any time two people mutually decide to meet at a pre-agreed time and place for the purpose of enjoying some sort of activity together: Dining out, going to a movie, a concert, etc. So you could conceivably agree to attend a movie/play/NASCAR race/strip show/BINGO competition with your friend of the same sex, or your sister, or your boss, or somebody you find unattractive, and it would be a "date" in the strictest sense of the word.
But that's not what you're asking. You're asking if it is a "date" in the sense of romance and the possibility of an emotional or physical connection, even a possibly relationship. All you have to go on is the evidence, and since all the evidence is in "texting" mode, you have very little to work with. Here's what you do know: She is friendly, she is flirty, she is enthusiastic when talking to you, she wants to do multiple specific activities with you (movie/dance), and she uses happy emoticons with you.
Given what we know, I would guess these are friendly, non-serious, potential-for-romance "dates" that you are on. You should go into it with low expectations but high hopes. If you are talking and you think things are going well, drop subtle hints or clues that you are interested in her. See if she responds in kind.
If you really want to get the awkwardness out of the way early on, just say something like, "I'm really glad to be out on a date with you," and then say, "Oh, this is a 'date', right?" and then if she says it isn't, laugh it off and enjoy her company as a friend. Really, the idea is not to put a lot of expectation and pressure on the situation, and just let things play out naturally. If you are attracted to her, flirt with her. If she flirts back, then keep testing the waters a little more whenever you feel like it. Don't push too hard, don't overthink it. Have fun.
Date :)
Its a date with a long term commitment in may. Wear something nice.
She wants you and its a date
dude, obviously she really likes you and wants things to workout. That is so completely OBVIOUS...i honestly dont even know why you're asking this question...
smh