You can't do anything if the person does not forgive ya that easily or readily.All ya can do is just wait and hope time to repair things.
Forcing a person to forgive ya is A VERY BAD IDEA.They hate it and might just say they forgave ya but they don't really mean it.They just get more put off by U( take it from the HORSE'S MOUTH)
The best advice, though you may not want to hear it, is to let it go. You did your part and now it is up to the other person to do theirs. You are only accountable for your own actions, not the actions of others. Sometimes, too, it takes someone a while to think things over. If you had a good relationship before the conflict, perhaps the person will realize the value they are missing by not reciprocating. And if they do not, well, then your relationship may have been on shaky footing to begin with. At any rate, remember you did your best to start the healing. I hope you will realize how valuable you are in your own right and I hope you have, or will find, other friends that will be more forgiving and kind to you. God bless you, dear soul.
Well after that apology fails you should try apologysing to her a diffrent way.Try to get her calmed down and sit her on the couch make sure you bring gifts or you might get your head ripped off.Now calmly give her an explanation as to why you did what you did and then tell her she doesnt have a time limit to forgive you and leave.See now doesnt that work out nicely?
I would say that the best idea would be to go to someone who has your trust as well as the trust of the person with whom you have the conflict. Discuss the problem in depth with this third person, impress this person with your sincerity (don't say anything to the effect that you're sorry, but it's really the second person's fault), and ask him or her to act as an intermediary.
you don't...if someone won't accept an apology then there's nothing more that you can do than just move on with your life. the balls in their court now...when you apologize you have a 50/50 chance of acceptance or not. that's why you shouldn't do stuff that you need to apologize for....or at least be smart enough not to get caught lol ;)
You wait a while after you tried apologizing. Then, the person you tried apologizing to will soon, most likely, understand how much they truely need you.
Efforts to unravel the Arab-Israeli conflict and set up peace failed because they are 1/2 @rsed efforts that no one believes in. also, try getting 2 previous goats to make peace with one yet another? precisely. RE: Why have efforts to unravel the Arab-Israeli conflict and set up peace failed? Why have efforts to unravel the Arab-Israeli conflict and set up peace failed?
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You can't do anything if the person does not forgive ya that easily or readily.All ya can do is just wait and hope time to repair things.
Forcing a person to forgive ya is A VERY BAD IDEA.They hate it and might just say they forgave ya but they don't really mean it.They just get more put off by U( take it from the HORSE'S MOUTH)
The best advice, though you may not want to hear it, is to let it go. You did your part and now it is up to the other person to do theirs. You are only accountable for your own actions, not the actions of others. Sometimes, too, it takes someone a while to think things over. If you had a good relationship before the conflict, perhaps the person will realize the value they are missing by not reciprocating. And if they do not, well, then your relationship may have been on shaky footing to begin with. At any rate, remember you did your best to start the healing. I hope you will realize how valuable you are in your own right and I hope you have, or will find, other friends that will be more forgiving and kind to you. God bless you, dear soul.
It just really depends on what the conflict was about, and how forgiving the other person is.
Some people just need some time and eventually will get over it. Some people will hold onto a grudge forever.
Basically, you'll just have to wait and see.
Try not to beat yourself up too much.
Well after that apology fails you should try apologysing to her a diffrent way.Try to get her calmed down and sit her on the couch make sure you bring gifts or you might get your head ripped off.Now calmly give her an explanation as to why you did what you did and then tell her she doesnt have a time limit to forgive you and leave.See now doesnt that work out nicely?
I would say that the best idea would be to go to someone who has your trust as well as the trust of the person with whom you have the conflict. Discuss the problem in depth with this third person, impress this person with your sincerity (don't say anything to the effect that you're sorry, but it's really the second person's fault), and ask him or her to act as an intermediary.
Good luck.
you don't...if someone won't accept an apology then there's nothing more that you can do than just move on with your life. the balls in their court now...when you apologize you have a 50/50 chance of acceptance or not. that's why you shouldn't do stuff that you need to apologize for....or at least be smart enough not to get caught lol ;)
If you have offered a sincere apology and the conflict continues just let it go. Its not up to you to beg. You've done your part.
You wait a while after you tried apologizing. Then, the person you tried apologizing to will soon, most likely, understand how much they truely need you.
If a sincere, heartfelt apology didn't work, you're screwed!
No, really, just give it some time. Be kind, let your actions show how you feel, and try again in a week.
Good luck!
By the way, what'd you do?
Efforts to unravel the Arab-Israeli conflict and set up peace failed because they are 1/2 @rsed efforts that no one believes in. also, try getting 2 previous goats to make peace with one yet another? precisely. RE: Why have efforts to unravel the Arab-Israeli conflict and set up peace failed? Why have efforts to unravel the Arab-Israeli conflict and set up peace failed?